Ep. 533 How to Ask for What You Want AND Actually Get It
Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want
Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney
4.4 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 24 June 2025
⏱️ 39 minutes
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Summary
It’s time to STOP sabotaging yourself—and start asking for what you actually want.
This week, we’re joined by Brad DeMint, host of the How to Win podcast and a powerhouse salesman who knows how to close deals and create clarity.
Brad breaks down the exact mindset shift that will help you stop playing small, speak up, and go after what you truly want—not just in dating, but in life. We also dig into why so many people don’t even know what they want, and how to finally get clear so you can confidently ask for it (and get it).
If you’ve ever held back, talked yourself out of something, or waited too long, this episode is your wake-up call.
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| 0:00.0 | Coming up on this week's episode of the Ask Women podcast, we are going to figure out how to ask for what you want because you can do everything right. |
| 0:11.5 | You can have great rapport with a woman. |
| 0:14.3 | You can build connection. |
| 0:15.3 | You can create attraction. |
| 0:16.8 | But then if you don't know how to actually ask for what you want, you're not doing anything with what it is that you're creating. |
| 0:23.5 | So we have Brad DeMint on our show and we're going to dissect and explain how to ask for what you want and how to figure out what it is that you want. |
| 0:33.2 | So keep listening. |
| 0:44.0 | Hey guys. Welcome to the Ask Women podcast. |
| 0:46.1 | Kristen is not here this week. |
| 0:48.1 | Apparently, she's throwing up. |
| 0:50.7 | I don't know if she doesn't have COVID or anything. |
| 0:53.6 | She's just not feeling very well, which is good because I don't want her here anyway because |
| 0:57.5 | I have Brad DeMint on with me and we are going to talk about something that I say quite often. |
| 1:04.2 | And it's the phrase, you don't get what you want without asking for it. |
| 1:07.9 | You said it a little bit differently, Brad, but that's my belief system. |
| 1:11.5 | If you don't open your mouth and ask for something, you're never going to have a chance at |
| 1:16.6 | receiving it. So Brad, welcome to the show and I'm excited to dig into this concept with you |
| 1:24.0 | because I think so many guys who are listening right now do not ask for what they want |
| 1:29.2 | with women and possibly even in many other areas of their lives. So welcome to the show. |
| 1:34.6 | Hey, thanks for having me on, Marnie. This is awesome. Yeah, like you said, people are sometimes |
| 1:38.8 | afraid to ask for what they want. And I'm in sales. So this is something that I've learned in the sales world, |
| 1:46.2 | but for a lot of the stuff you talk about, it applies with women too. And a lot of guys don't have |
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