What's up everybody? This is the Betray, the addicted, and the expert. My name is Brannon and I am the expert.

And I'm Ashland and I was the portrayed and I'm Kobe the recovering addict.

What you're gonna get is three unique perspectives on recovery and tools for hope and healing.

Hey guys, we are happy to be here with you guys another week and we're going to get started by reading a most recent review here. We love having your reviews so if you haven't left

this review you can do it on the podcast app or over on iTunes. So this is from

Mrs. Denial. This show has helped me greatly. I unfortunately am a wife that has cheated multiple times. I always blamed my husband. This time he was always poning out that I have an addiction. I've been in denial for all my life.

Listening to Kobe speaking his truth has made me realize that we are very

similar in his pre-recovery thoughts. I'm not addicted to porn and I don't believe I'm addicted to sex but

I'm going to start with a new therapist today and get it figured out. It's so true that denial

is an addict's best friend. That episode really hit me and I listened to it three times

before sending it to my husband. He listened to it and said he was happy that I

seem to get something out of it. However he's turned off by it because it felt focused on the man

typically being at fault. I think it triggered him. Then commented that he

thought you were actors, we are definitely not. Wow.

Kobe, you're a great actor.

I know, right?

Dang it.

I was for a long time.

I researched this and see that that is not the case.

No, we are definitely not actors.

Perhaps maybe there should be a more people cheat

attitude because I feel there are maybe some men in pain too that don't get the

...