Hello, Samu'a'a'a-a-a-a-com. Thank you for joining us here, Mindful Muslim Speaks, the place where we are

empowering women and helping them to grow and thrive. You might have heard me mention a term called

the growth mindset in my last podcast on love. I mentioned having a growth mindset and better you're at having a spouse who has one

as being an integral part of a healthy and long-lasting marriage.

Now, if you're a young female who's trying to become better and more successful for yourself,

also if you're looking for a spouse or even if you're already married this one is for you because you

can't have a great marriage unless you have the growth you know with a growth mindset unless you have

this growth mindset yourself first and if you're new to this podcast by the way I just want to say

that you are welcome here thank you thank you for joining us and in chelita ala you'll find that we

have topics on parenting love love, homeschooling,

a lot of mindful motivation and inspiration and how we can live ourselves as people who are

closer to the sunnah and following the sunnet and this modern way of life. So if you're

wondering, by the way, what this topic growth mindset is that I'm talking about. This comes from a famous psychologist called Carol.

Her name is Carol Dweck.

If you're wondering exactly what growth mindset means,

it's pretty much exactly what it sounds like,

a tendency to believe that you can grow.

Now, in her book, Mindset, the New Psychology of Success,

she basically explains why a fixed mindset assumes

that our character, intelligent, creative ability, are static givens, which we can't change

in any meaningful way.

Now, by the way, if you're a person who feels that, oh, I'm bad at math, oh, I'm not so great at spelling, oh, I'm not athletic oh I'm not so great at spelling oh I'm not

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