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Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

EP 529: How to Re-Parent the Inner Child with Amanda

Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

Christine Hassler

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.8 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 4 March 2026

⏱️ 35 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

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Summary

Why do we keep repeating relationship patterns even when we know better?

In this honest and insightful coaching session, Christine works with Amanda, who recognizes a long-standing pattern of choosing partners with narcissistic traits, emotional avoidance, or chaotic lifestyles. Despite strong intuition warning her early on, she finds herself staying in these relationships until they reach a painful breaking point.

Christine helps Amanda uncover the deeper root of the pattern: the inner child seeking to recreate familiar dynamics from childhood in hopes of finally receiving the love, validation, and stability that were missing. Through the conversation, Amanda begins to see how self-worth, validation, and unconscious beliefs about love have been influencing her choices.

If you've ever wondered why you continue to repeat the same relationship dynamics — even after years of personal development work — this episode will help you understand how real change happens through re-parenting yourself and building a secure relationship within. 

 

Consider / Ask Yourself:

  • Do you notice yourself repeating the same patterns in relationships?
  • Are you drawn to people who need fixing, saving, or rescuing?
  • Do you sometimes ignore your intuition early in relationships?
  • Do you place partners on a pedestal and abandon your own needs?
  • Are feelings of shame or self-judgment keeping you stuck in old patterns?

 

Key Insights and A-HAs:

  • Relationship patterns often mirror unresolved childhood dynamics.
  • The inner child seeks familiar situations in hopes of finally getting unmet needs fulfilled.
  • Intellectual understanding alone does not change subconscious patterns.
  • Self-worth struggles can lead to placing others on a pedestal.
  • Shame heals through compassion and understanding — not judgment.
  • Real change happens through re-parenting yourself in real time.

 

How to Deepen the Work:

  • Practice validating your feelings instead of dismissing them.
  • When shame or self-judgment arises, respond with compassion: "Of course I feel this way."
  • Notice when younger parts of you are driving your decisions in relationships.
  • Begin relating to yourself as a supportive parent would to a child.
  • Shift from analyzing patterns to actively rewiring your responses in everyday moments.

 

Course: Rewired – Inner Child Healing

Christine is opening enrollment for Rewired, her live inner child healing course designed to help you shift subconscious patterns and build a secure relationship with yourself.

The program includes live coaching sessions, somatic and breathwork practices, and ongoing support designed to help you rewire the beliefs and nervous system patterns formed in childhood.

Learn more or join the program at:
christinehassler.com/rewired

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is episode 529, How to Reparent the Inner Child with Amanda.

0:08.8

Welcome to Life Coaching with Christine Hassler, a space where truth and love come together to

0:14.2

guide you back to your truest self. Hi, I'm Christine, a master coach, author, and spiritual

0:19.5

psychologist. For over 20 years, I've supported people through the deep work of letting go, waking up,

0:25.4

and coming home to who they truly are.

0:27.7

Each week, you'll hear an unedited, unscripted coaching session with someone moving through a

0:31.9

challenge or block in their life.

0:33.7

These are tender and powerful conversations where deep healing happens in real time.

0:38.5

Even though I'm coaching someone else, you will hear yourself in their story.

0:42.5

This is a place where you will feel seen and supported and walk away with insight, emotional relief, and tools you can apply in your own life.

0:50.3

Let's dive into today's session.

0:55.0

Hey, everybody, welcome back to the show.

0:57.7

If you've been listening for a while, thank you so much.

1:00.9

And even if you're a relatively new listener, you've probably got the gist of what happens on this show.

1:07.8

So this is a life coaching show.

1:09.8

And my expertise and often the doorway I come in through

1:14.0

to support people is through reparenting themselves, not rehashing memories or reliving trauma,

1:20.1

but giving themselves the childhood they never had and being the parent to themselves that

1:24.8

they always wanted. Because what I've seen for my own life and working

1:29.7

with people for 22 years and from all the training I've done is that whatever needs were not

1:34.6

met in childhood, we subconsciously, often consciously, seek them out in adulthood. And we tend

1:40.2

to attract familiar experiences and people and have familiar patterns, often that don't get

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