Ep. 527 Be a Detective in the Bedroom: How to Read Her and Please Her
Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want
Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney
4.4 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 13 May 2025
⏱️ 37 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, we’re joined by Celeste Hirschman, co-creator of the Somatica® Method and co-founder of the Somatica Institute. Celeste is a somatic sex coach who specializes in helping men and women create deeper, more connected, and more satisfying intimate experiences.
We dive into how you can become a detective in the bedroom—not by overanalyzing, but by tuning in. Learn how to pick up on what a woman likes, what she doesn’t, and how to test the waters in a way that feels confident, playful, and deeply attuned. Celeste shares actionable tips on how to explore and communicate desire without killing the mood, how to bring more sensuality into your touch, and how to come across as the sexy, grounded man women crave—without second-guessing yourself.
Whether you're just starting to explore intimacy or want to take your bedroom confidence to the next level, this episode will give you a new perspective on pleasure, connection, and what women actually want.
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| 0:00.0 | Coming up on the Ask Women podcast, we talk to a somatic sex coach and we get really great information about how to be a detective with women or with the woman that you're seeing in the bedroom, finding out what she likes, what she doesn't like, how to test the waters. |
| 0:18.3 | We have Celeste Hirschman on the show and she is going to explain to you exactly how to do all of these things and come across as the sexy, amazing man |
| 0:26.9 | that you are. So keep listening. Hey guys, welcome to the Ask Women podcast, a podcast you've hopefully been listening to for |
| 0:44.8 | 11 years or however long we've been doing this darn show. |
| 0:47.9 | It's absolutely insane. |
| 0:49.2 | But Kristen is not joining us or she might be popping in. |
| 0:51.6 | We do not know and we shall see. |
| 0:53.1 | It'll be a huge surprise for everybody. But you have me, Marnie from the Wing Girl Method. And today we have Celeste |
| 1:00.0 | Hirschman on our call. Who is, I'm going to read this because I'm totally going to mess this up. |
| 1:06.1 | But she's the co-founder of the Somatica Institute of Sex and Relationship Coaching. And she now coaches other coaches |
| 1:13.9 | on her method, which is the Somatica Institute of Sex and Relationship Coaching. So, |
| 1:20.4 | Celeste, thanks for being here. And thanks for talking with us. Thank you so much for having me. |
| 1:25.5 | Yeah. I want to talk about sex. Let's talk about it. So here's the |
| 1:28.6 | thing. So I want to talk to you because you let me know that you're also single and dating. So I |
| 1:32.7 | want to pick your brain about that, what you're seeing, what you're liking, what you're not |
| 1:35.8 | liking, all of that. But first, I want to talk to you about your specialty, which is sex, |
| 1:40.9 | sex and more sex. And I absolutely love that because you were going to help guide the guys |
| 1:45.7 | listening on talking about different levels of comfort women have around sex and how to understand |
| 1:52.2 | what different women are looking for sexually. I think that's such a challenge for most guys |
| 1:58.1 | because in their mind, they're like, I have things that I want to do, |
| 2:01.2 | but I don't know if I can say them to her. How do you help people guide them? What would you tell guys |
| 2:06.3 | on how to really get a gauge for where women are at sexually and also how to proceed sexually with |
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