Ep. 526 Unlocking Your Dark Side to Attract Women

Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want

Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.4 • 1.2K Ratings

🗓️ 6 May 2025

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

What if your “dark side” was the key to unlocking deeper confidence, attraction, and connection in your relationships?

In this episode, Adam Skoda — host of The Masculine Mindset Show, author of 77 Ways to Develop a Masculine Mindset, and creator of the Alpha Body Bootcamp Training Program — joins the show to explore the real power behind what psychology calls the “Dark Triad” traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy.

We dive into:

What the Dark Triad really means in the context of human attraction and female psychology
How to channel “dark” energy in a healthy way to create polarity and deeper emotional connection
Personal stories from our own relationships where embracing shadow energy created surprising breakthroughs
A grounded, practical guide to shadow work — and how to do it without spiraling or getting stuck in shame

If you’ve ever felt like there’s a part of you you’ve been told to hide — this episode is your permission slip to bring it into the light (and use it well).

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0:00.0	Coming up on this week's episode of the Ask Women podcast, we are talking about some dark topics,
0:08.4	like the dark triad and shadow work and how that can enhance your sexuality.
0:15.0	We have Adam Skoda, who's the host of the masculine mindset show, and he's going to share with us how to tap into your shadow side, integrate it,
0:26.6	and then pull those little pieces of gold out of the dark triad to earn her on.
0:33.6	So you don't want to miss this episode.
0:35.8	Keep listening.
0:46.3	Music So you don't want to miss this episode. Keep listening. Hey, you guys, welcome to the Ask Women podcast, one of your favorite podcasts, and of course, one of your favorite hosts, Kristen Carney. That's me speaking. And today we don't have Marnie Kinras, my co-host with me, but we have an awesome guest. We have Adam Skoda, who has an interesting story. He started out actually getting coached. I know I coached Adam. I think Marnie coached Adam, but now Adam has come so far,
1:11.8	and he's the host of the masculine mindset show,
1:15.3	and he's the author of 77 ways to develop a masculine mindset,
1:20.2	and not to mention the creator of the Alpha Body Boot Camp Training Program.
1:25.5	So he's doing a lot of shit, And we're going to get into a lot of
1:30.1	shit. And I say shit, S-H-I-T, because we're going to talk about like the dark stuff, some dark
1:36.7	things that we don't deal with. We choose not to deal with, but how it plays into attraction
1:43.6	and physical chemistry and all of that
1:47.2	stuff. So Adam Skoda, thank you so much for joining me and welcome to the show.
1:53.2	No worries. I'm happy to be here. So you have, as I mentioned, an interesting story. I would
2:00.3	love to hear it a bit first so we can have some
2:04.0	context for how you got to where you are and what you're working on and why, which is stuff
2:12.8	like you mentioned the dark triad and dark energy, things like that. So we definitely need some context
2:20.6	before the dark stuff. So hit me with the route you took to get to doing this masculine
2:27.6	man coaching, et cetera. So my story kind of goes back to like my ex-ex girlfriend, Emily.
2:37.8	Really what comes to mind is the event in my life where I witnessed another man
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