So you clicked onto this video for a reason and I'm just gonna come out here and say it.

This isn't the easiest thing to share with you and there's a lot of transformation that

can come from realizing this though.

If you are attracted emotionally unavailable people into your life, it's because at a certain

level you are emotionally unavailable.

Now I know this is hard to hear and I had to swallow this pill and it was not easy

pill to swallow.

Okay.

Here I was experiencing relationships where the people I would attract would be emotionally

unavailable and then I had this story, oh they're just not emotionally present, they're

avoiding doing the work, they're not choosing me and deep down what I eventually realized

is that I would only attract that because it's a mirror of my own energy.

I was also emotionally unavailable and that's why I was attracting someone that was

emotionally unavailable because it was a mirror direct reflection.

So you might ask yourself, okay you're saying I have this thing where I'm actually emotionally

unavailable, I thought it was them but how do I actually become more emotionally available

so that I attract emotionally available love or I go deeper in my relationship or whatever

it is.

How do I actually do that?

Now for me what I had to learn to do is this one phrase changed everything and I posted

this on Instagram recently and I had so many people asked me about this and this is why

I'm making the video and basically what it was is I said why do people choose people that

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