People feel what you feel about you.

Think about that.

The energy you put out, based on how you feel about yourself,

other people are feeling that and then are reflecting that back to you.

So if, for example, you have maybe an acne,

like some type of acne on your face,

and you go out and you're really worried about it.

You're like, is everyone looking at this little pimple?

Is everyone looking at the pimple?

And you feel insecure about it.

You're more likely to perceive that other people are staring at the pimple.

And if your energy closes in and you feel a specific way,

you're going to find that other people may be perceived to like be looking at it more.

And that's because of the energy you are embodying.

Whereas if you go out and you own it,

not that you have to give the pimple special attention.

Like, everyone, look at my pimple is so cool.

You like the pimple, but if you almost just don't give it any importance whatsoever,

and you're just being yourself and you're owning yourself,

people won't notice it nearly as much.

And if they do, you won't even be attached.

I remember one time I had a friend who had kind of a pimple that was called a cis.

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