I believe that vulnerability is literally the most attractive quality.

That is the most underrated quality right now in society.

But one of the most refreshing qualities that someone can have to really attract

someone that resonates with them, somebody that resonates at a deep level.

Here's the thing, right now in society as you look around, there's so much surface level BS.

It's all surface level stuff. It's people kind of dancing around the depths of who they are that

are kind of having small talks, small conversation that are afraid to show who they really are because

they're afraid of rejection or validation. And therefore, it's surface level relationships.

If you want to attract someone at a deep level, somebody with depth,

somebody that you feel like you have a form of deep connection with, then the best thing you can

actually do is to be more vulnerable. Being vulnerable is the most attractive thing you can do and

the most attractive way of being. It is completely transformed my life. And it is attracted to me,

people that I really resonate with at a deep level. Now, first off, you might be asking what is

vulnerability? Vulnerability. The word, owner, means wound and the word ability is the ability to go

into the wound, the ability to show the aspects of yourself that you may normally not show because

there's an afraid of being rejected. And that's a lot of times what happens when we grow up. We go

through conditioning growing up where we're led to believe that we need people's approval and validation.

And if we don't get it, then what we do is we believe we must change ourselves and only show

certain aspects of ourselves so that we can get that approval and validation. So it's like that

surface level stuff I'm talking about. And that sometimes also reverts to people that change

themselves to make other people happier, to get other people's validation. So it's like,

what kind of food do you like? And they're like, oh, I like Chinese food. And you're like, yeah,

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