The number one biggest power move you can make is to actually walk away. When you walk away,

you signify and signal value out and that is extremely attractive to other people. And in this

video, I'm going to show you exactly why walking away is the biggest power move you can make. I'm

going to show you what not to do and why the opposite of that ends up pushing them away. And also

I'm going to show you the mistakes to avoid when doing this because when done correctly,

not only will you feel safe within yourself, you feel like you don't need anyone else to come

around and you'll maintain your power and that changes everything as a reflection. Now,

this reminds me of a experience in my own life where I used to do the opposite of this. What I

would do is I would be in a relationship with somebody, especially I remember this in the first

relationship I was ever in, where I would choose someone, sometimes that also wasn't entirely

choosing me. And what I would then do is if they would pull back at all, I would then think there

was something wrong with me and I would try to change that and I would try to control this situation.

And by being overly alert to what they wanted or what they needed by reaching out to them,

it would then actually push them away and have the opposite effect. But in the first relationship,

I ever had, I learned the power of walking away and it had the opposite effect of what I actually

thought. So what happened was this was one of my first relationships after from 7 to 15, I had

like no freedom at all, wasn't allowed to date, wasn't allowed to go to school to answer,

or anything like that, had a controlling accept mom in my life. My dad divorced her when I was 15

years old, all the sudden I have all this freedom. At about 17, that was when I had my first girlfriend

and it was a relationship where it was like I wasn't fully being chosen and I was okay with that.

I was like staying in the relationship, I remember at one point there was this school dance and

instead of us going to the school dance together, she went with an ex-boyfriend and a lot of her

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