EP. 463: Letting Go Of Your Boyfriend For Your Husband Pt. 2 (feat. Sarah Fontenot)
Decisions, Decisions
The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
4.6 • 7.7K Ratings
🗓️ 9 March 2026
⏱️ 79 minutes
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On this episode of Decisions, Decisions, Sarah Fontenot joins Mandii B and WeezyWTF for a candid conversation about marriage, commitment, and modern relationships. The group discusses whether marriage should be the goal, Mandii’s hesitation around long-term commitment, and what emotional independence looks like in dating. Sarah also shares the story of leaving her boyfriend for the man who became her husband, the speed of their relationship, and how they went from friends to marriage. Later, the hosts debate expectations in partnerships, Cam Newton and marriage, and whether Mandii might actually be afraid of becoming a wife before Sarah closes out the episode with the three things that are important to her in life in order of importance.
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| 0:00.0 | I feel like, I personally feel like why are you going to play house with a man? |
| 0:06.0 | And that's why most women never become the wives they want to be. |
| 0:09.4 | Oh, they want to marry a man. |
| 0:11.2 | And I'm sure that women are getting tired of trying to pressure that man into marrying them. |
| 0:15.0 | You already gave him everything. |
| 0:16.4 | Why would you buy the cow if you gave him the milk for free? |
| 0:19.3 | So moving in with a man first, you think actually... I think it's a disaster. |
| 0:23.5 | Really? I will fold my man's clothes and spread |
| 0:26.8 | his cheeks wide and lick it to the heavens. |
| 0:30.6 | Just because I go above and beyond |
| 0:32.9 | to show how much I love my man doesn't mean I want to be a wife. |
| 0:36.5 | You can... You may not want to be a wife. |
| 0:38.5 | You believe that, Mandy. |
| 0:40.0 | I believe that there are women that do not want to be a wife. |
| 0:45.9 | This is an I-Heart podcast. |
| 0:48.7 | Guaranteed human. |
| 0:53.3 | Decisions, decisions. Welcome everybody to a part two. Not me holding up the three side note. |
| 0:59.2 | Part two of Decisions Decisions. It's your girl, Mandy. V. I'm Weezy. And for a week, we was like |
| 1:06.1 | Mortal Kombat. Me and Sarah was holding like this, get ready for the next combo. And we have Sarah Fontenot dash shorter still back in the building. |
| 1:14.9 | And if y'all see, we got the same outfit song. |
| 1:18.1 | If y'all are watching us on the YouTube, the conversation had to continue. |
| 1:21.8 | We didn't even get to how she was out here. |
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