This video, I'm going to show you step by step exactly what to do if somebody went no contact

on you. This is important time right now. What you do next will powerfully affect the outcome

that you get and that's why I'm making this video. Now, when it comes to no contact, the first

thing to understand is what has happened. Let's look at the energy dynamics of what has actually

happened here. Somebody, maybe you were in either a relationship with them or you were growing

closer to them or maybe you hoped that eventually there'd be a relationship or at least some form

of intimacy. And what happened is somebody withdrew their energy and is asking for space and they

are not reaching out to you. They are not contacting you. You have maybe texted them. Maybe you've

called them. They're not answering. Maybe you've reached out to their family or their friends or

you've tried going to some place that they hang out a lot hoping to accidentally run into them.

The thing that has happened energetically when somebody goes no contact is they are asking

for space. They're actually maybe even demanding space. So it's important to first of look at this

because what most people do is they do the opposite of this. Somebody is asking for space.

Somebody is asking to separate their energy so that they can a lot of times it's to separate

their energies so that they can breathe too. Because what happens is when we're in relationship with

somebody else or we are around somebody a lot, our energy is intermingling with this other person.

And especially this can happen in like an avoidant attachment styles where things become too intimate

and then there's a desire for space. And what happens is energies are intermingled and then they say,

well, I want my own energy. And sometimes what happens is when they then start to try to

individuate the other person may lean in even more. May ask even more questions or want and maybe

clean even even more tightly. And when they clean even more tightly, it creates an energy of

neediness. Of neediness and neediness is one of the most repelling energies that exist.

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