If you want them to call you or text you every day, what I share with you in this video will change

everything and it will help you understand more about the energy dynamics of attraction

plus how you can embody the most non-attached magnetic version of you. Now the first thing you

want to become aware of when asking this question is why. Why do you want them to call you or to text

you every day? Now the reason I say this is because when you see the real reason that you might

want them to do that, it then helps you understand more where that energy is coming from.

For a while, I remember that that was something that would be my focus. It was like, okay,

the focus is on how could I get somebody else to do this thing that I wanted them to do?

And in a way, one of the things that changed everything for me was when I realized that that was a

form of me trying to manipulate the environment to meet my own needs. There was an inner childhood

need that wasn't being met when I was a kid and funny enough, then later on in adulthood, you

attract people that can only reflect back that same inner child need that wasn't met.

So then it's like we're trying to get our needs met. The person, of course, that feels familiar

for us to attract that. And then what happens is we don't get that need met and then we feel like

there's something wrong and then we're searching for it. We're wanting our inner child needs met.

So one thing I had to realize is that a big part of my life was spent trying to manipulate the

environment and other people to meet my own needs. One way that this might look, at least it did

for me, was trying to please people, people pleasing, pleasing people in order to get their

validation and approval. So it'd be really nice when say anything that was like too triggering or

too polarizing. Why? Well, there was, there was an inner child need there where not feeling

approved of or validated of as a kid, not feeling worthy. So then searching for that and other people.

But the thing that changed it all for me was when I realized that that people pleasing was a

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