Ep. 441 "Take Some Sh*t Off Her Plate & The Panties Will Follow" ft. Tana C. Gilmore

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

Personal Journals, Comedy, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.7 • 3.2K Ratings

🗓️ 11 April 2025

⏱️ 81 minutes

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This week, we’re shaking things up with The Affair — the cocktail, not your situationship (but if the shoe fits…). We’re joined by the fabulous matchmaker and intimacy expert Tana C. Gilmore, and let’s just say: she’s spilling all the tea on sexless marriages, spicy matchmaking secrets, and why living in separate states from your husband might just save your marriage and your sanity. We’re talking grown folks business — from side-eyes over the group chat to couples who haven’t had sex in 12 years (girl, yes, 12!). Tune in for laughs, lessons, and a reminder to charge your vibrator AND your emotional batteries.

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0:00.0	Yeah, yeah, check one, two, check one, two.
0:04.3	Is this mic on?
0:05.6	Is this mic on?
0:06.5	Hey, listen, man, it's the one and only trend set of DJ since,
0:09.6	and you're listening to cocktails.
0:11.4	Dirty discussions with Kiki and Medina Monroe.
0:14.5	Yeah.
0:20.2	Today's cocktail is called The Affair.
0:23.7	Ooh, I know.
0:25.4	The ingredients you need.
0:27.3	You're going to need two ounces of Villan, a half ounce of vanilla syrup,
0:34.2	and one ounce of espresso or a cold brew and some coffee beans for a garnish.
0:40.3	So grab your martini glass, make sure it's clean.
0:43.9	You're going to put two ounces of the vill on into the shaker, the cocktail shaker full of ice.
0:49.0	I love a good coffee drink.
0:51.0	I do too.
0:51.7	It's funny because when we were planning out drinks, I put down a variation of
0:55.7	a espresso martini. I was like, look at us on the same bag. That's wow. Wow. It really is.
1:02.6	All right. So then you want to do one ounce of your cold brew. I made this myself today.
1:09.3	What kind of, is it a Starbucks? Yep.
1:11.6	I know y'all said we're not supposed to be there, but I got plenty of Starbucks pods, and it is what it is.
1:16.6	I accidentally went into Target the other day, but it's okay.
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