EP 435: How to Clear the Blocks to Go After What You Truly Desire with Matt

Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

Christine Hassler

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.8 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 17 January 2024

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

This coaching call is about removing blocks. Today's caller, Matt, has fears related to starting a new entrepreneurial business based on childhood wounding. Christine offers guidance about how he can release his self-protective mechanisms and fears of not being worthy of success.

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There are life-changing repercussions from significant childhood events where we felt shame, were not seen, or were not loved for who we are. Those events can create conscious and subconscious blocks because deep down our inner child believes something is wrong with them.

Many of us don't get to where we want to go in life because we haven't healed the origin wound that is holding us back.

We can get critical of the ways we believe we are sabotaging ourselves. But in reality, we are not sabotaging ourselves, we are protecting ourselves. The next time you notice yourself procrastinating or making excuses, put your hand on your heart and remember that it is just a form of self-protection and that you are safe to express yourself because you are an adult now and you've got this.

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Consider/Ask Yourself:

Was there an event in your life that has dramatically impacted how you see yourself and how you see the world?
Is there something you want to do, maybe a career you want to step into or a relationship you want to take to the next level but you're terrified?
Do you fear rejection?
Do you fear getting your heart broken, so much so that you don't go after the things you want?

Matt's Question:

Matt has blocks around starting a video production business.

Matt's Key Insights and Ahas:

He has a day job.
He had an HIV diagnosis that changed his trajectory.
He runs a support group for others with HIV.
He fears that something will go wrong when he tries something new.
He is in a two-year relationship.
He has a block around planning for the future.
He has childhood wounds around being who he is.
He has a lot of awareness about his blocks.
He's been incorporating inner child work into his life.
He wants to get his website up and running but he is stalling and making excuses.
He has time management concerns around starting a new business.
He loves video editing and being creative.
He acknowledges it is OK to have fears.
He is ready to make a change.

How to Get Over It and On With It:

Change his language when talking about his fears and protective patterns.
Don't get frustrated with the protective part of his psyche.
Completely accept himself for who he is.
Know he is lovable.
Get a picture of himself as a teen and use it as a tool to follow his "why."

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0:00.0	This is episode 435.
0:03.8	How to clear the blocks to go after what you truly desire with Matt.
0:09.0	Welcome to Over It and On With It.
0:11.2	I'm your host, Christine Hasler, and for over a decade I've been a life coach,
0:15.2	speaker, and author. Each week you'll hear me work directly with a caller as I coach them through a
0:19.7	goal they want to accomplish or an obstacle they may be facing. I'll provide a blend of
0:23.8	practical and spiritual advice as well as tangible actions you can apply to your
0:27.4	own life. Now let's get on with the episode.
0:37.0	Hi everybody, welcome back to the show. I hope your New Year's off to a beautiful start.
0:40.0	Of course, it's not too late to participate in my New Year's ritual, part one and part two.
0:44.7	You can catch those episodes on the Coaches Corner episodes the past couple weeks.
0:50.2	It's never too late to set intentions and do ritual. Rituals a beautiful way to set intentions and do ritual.
0:53.0	Ritual is a beautiful way to consciously and powerfully
0:57.8	declare what you're letting go of
1:00.0	and what you're calling in.
1:06.7	I also want to remind you that there's a great opportunity to step into this new year with an amazing coach at a very affordable price. So as part of the training that elementary coaches get
1:16.4	at the Institute, I co-founded,
1:18.2	elementary coaching institute.com,
1:20.3	they have the opportunity to work with clients
1:22.1	while being supervised by us and the faculty there.
1:25.0	And you have the opportunity to get coached by them at a very affordable rate, like I said.
1:30.0	This is a highly curated process.
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