EP. 415 "Talk To The Lady, Or The Man" ft. Shahem Mclaurin

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

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4.7 • 3.2K Ratings

🗓️ 11 October 2024

⏱️ 90 minutes

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This week, we had the pleasure of hosting Shahem Mclaurin, a licensed therapist and social worker who focuses on trauma and patriarchy-impacted individuals. Shahem shared his expertise on the impact of patriarchy on both men and women, explaining how societal norms that center around men can be harmful to everyone. He emphasized the importance of emotional attunement and the ability to fully feel and process one's emotions. We discussed the challenges men face in seeking therapy and the common criticisms Shahem encounters in his work, particularly from men who feel that women are not held accountable in the same way.

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0:00.0	Yeah, Check one two, check one two. Is this Mike on? Is this Mike on? Hey,
0:06.7	listen man, it's the one and only trends of the DJ since and you're listening to
0:10.3	cocktails. Dirty discussions with Kiki and Medina, Monroe, yeah. Today's cocktail is called You Need to Talk to the Lady or that man.
0:26.0	So the ingredients you're going to need to make this are a quarter cup of
0:29.0	pomegranate juice, one and a half ounces of bourbon, and to make it hit get into this is Madam
0:35.2	whiskey. You're also gonna need 1.5 ounces of raspberry liqueur. I'm using
0:40.6	chambour because I don't know what else to use it in and then we're also going to use the
0:44.4	juice from half of a lemon that comes out of a lemon like this. Have you ever seen this in a grocery
0:49.1	store? And then we also have some pomegranate arrows for garnish and some ice.
0:54.4	So we're going to take our shaker.
0:56.0	And then we're going to put one and a half ounces of bourbon in here.
1:01.5	I'm gonna be honest, I'm not cracking open, Madam Bourbon, Whiskey, whatever she is until the time calls.
1:08.0	We'll do a quarter cup of this. I'm going to get my Sandra Lee on and just eyeball it.
1:13.0	And then we're going to do 1.5 ounces of the chambord.
1:21.0	This is making me feel like we should really top it off as a little bit more bourbon. So I will.
1:26.2	Trump, get back, get back. It's not for you. All right.
1:33.0	Let's jump on board.
1:33.8	And then we're gonna add in juice from half the lemon,
1:37.2	which I didn't really juice it.
1:38.6	So this is another eyeball.
1:40.7	I would say if you're gonna measure half an ounce to one ounce.
1:44.3	Half an ounce.
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