In this video, I'm going to show you how to detach from the outcome,

how to stop caring what other people think about you,

how to start feeling magnetic from the inside out simply by learning the one thing I share with you in this video.

Now, first off, realize this. There's a book that I read.

It's right here. It's called The Settle Art and I Give It A Fuck.

And in this book, what is talked about is that the truth of the matter is we are going to care about something.

We are going to give an F about something.

The idea is to make sure that that's something, is something you actually choose.

Now, for example, if we really care what other people think of us,

if we want someone else's validation, someone else's approval, someone else's support,

whatever that is, then what we are doing is that is what we are valuing.

Another word for value is important. We are making that very important.

And what happens is a lot of times, the things that we desire the most,

the things we make the most important are the things we felt we lacked or didn't get a lot of when we were a kid.

So imagine that you're dating someone or you're going out and you're with friends,

and it's very important to you what someone else thinks about you.

It's very important to you what they give you their approval or not, or if they like you.

Well, what ends up happening is because that's important to you, that puts off a needy energy.

Remember, if you need someone else's validation or approval,

then what that means is that there's needy resistant energy on the inside.

And here's the thing energetically. People feel what you feel about you.

So the challenge is that if you feel like I don't, you feel like I hope they like me,

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