I don't often do this where I take something personal for my life, something that I've actually

used with my own children this explicitly and share it in great detail on a podcast.

Well, that's what I'm going to do today.

And it's going to sound a little something like 20 pieces of advice for my daughter before

she gets married.

Take a lesson.

Okay. advice for my daughter before she gets married. Take a lesson. Salaamu alaqa ala ala ala ala ala ala ala ala ala welcome back and i want to do something that's actually one of my personal favorites i have a particular book that when my daughter was going to get married was really

really helpful it actually had amazing advice in fact it's called 20 pieces of advice to my sister

before her marriage and so i thought why not share this with you? And I'll

probably have to do it in two parts, like 10 pieces of advice the other. And I would say this is a

phenomenal book. If you haven't already heard of it, you might want to think of picking it up.

But I thought today I'd kind of give you the highlights of some of the things that were like

the best pieces of advice in there, which are pretty much all of them, and kind of give you a summary.

So if you don't have time to read it, you could still take those gems.

And al-a-lidli-lal-a-lameen.

And even, you know, sometimes I buy this book as a gift for women when they're getting married

or, you know definitely check it out.

All right.

So let's dive right into pieces of advice because, you know, out of all the things you

could tell someone when they're going to get married, what are things that are from the

sunnah that are really, really sound advice?

Let's take a look. So the first piece of advice is rectify your relationship

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