This video is going to show you how not trying to be impressive to woman is actually going to make you way more attractive

and it's going to show you how to actually have magnetic energy from the inside out.

Now when it comes to attracting woman, sometimes people believe that they must impress them

in order to receive from them their love, connection, support or the deeper thing of this that it's really about is

if someone is trying to impress woman then what is happening is they believe they must impress woman in order to get validation

or they believe that in order to receive love they must have those qualities and being of impressive.

Now the thing that happens is in the dating, in relationships, in magnetic energy the more we try to get other people to like us

the less they will like us.

If you ever notice that somebody that doesn't care whether someone likes them or not normally gets way more validation, support, more girls, whatever

it's because they're not trying.

The more you try, the more you resist and the thing when it comes to this topic of today's video that is really the transformation is becoming aware of the story that you might have around love

and believing that you need to impress someone else to gain validation or love.

And the key to this is really being honest to yourself because for a long time for me I had this toxic masculine trait.

It's called people pleasing.

People pleasing is when we try to make someone else happy or fix them in exchange for their validation, for their love, for sex or for some form of like exchange thing.

The thing with people pleasing is it is manipulation.

It is manipulative and it is an unattractive masculine trait.

And they have some female, some feminine people of females can also have that of the pleasing mentality.

Normally it comes from I believe not having a strong male figure growing up that had boundaries that wasn't trying to please in order to get normally nice guys.

Also, I think people, please, there may also have dads that were nice guys.

It is a theory that I have.

But in general, I was talking to my shadow work integration coach about this recently and we were talking about positive and negative masculine and feminine traits.

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