This is infants on Thrones, the philosophies of men,

being with humans.

We are the Corps. Yay! Welcome back to another episode of Infants on Thrones, my name is Tom Perry.

So back when I started really thinking about my relationship with apologies, forgiveness, and

grudges, I started to inquire to many of my family and friends and I came across many of them that

seemed to react very differently than I did.

For example, if I was wronged or if I was on the offending side of things,

I quickly realized I had some sort of inner a requirement that I needed an apology from the offender.

And if I didn't get what I considered what I thought was a proper apology, then I would hold

a form of grudge against that person.

The reason I did this seemed to stem from a strong inner sense of justice,

and when I felt like the scales were completely out of balance,

something needed to happen to correct the wrong.

But until then I would place a form of grudge on the offender

until I felt like the scales came back into balance.

But I was deeply curious why others didn't seem to approach forgiveness the same way I did? Of course I assumed that everyone had this

same inner need or sense of justice already built in them. You know we all get a heart so

hence we all get the same biological or genetic inner need for justice as well.

Made total sense to me.

Well, of course come to find out that many didn't approach forgiveness the same

way I did.

Some didn't require an apology at all and could easily move on.

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