Ep. 394 "This Too Shall Pass" ft. Ariel B. w/ hosts Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe
CockTales: Dirty Discussions
Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe
4.6 • 3.1K Ratings
🗓️ 16 May 2024
⏱️ 88 minutes
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Summary
**TRIGGER WARNING: We want to let you know that today's episode addresses the topic of domestic violence, which may be distressing or triggering for some listeners. If you or someone you know needs support, please reach out to trusted friends, family, or professional organizations. If you're in immediate danger, call emergency services.
This week we are joined by Ariel B., host of "This Too Shall Pass" podcast, who bravely shared her personal journey of surviving an abusive relationship, and finding herself after so many major life changing experiences. She sheds light on the importance of understanding family dynamics and relationships, particularly when warning signs are present, and how that directly impacted her life.
More detailed show notes below.
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233
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***Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233). https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/internet-safety/and remember to clear your browser history after visiting this website.
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Here are key takeaways from the episode that emphasize the significance of delving deeper into family dynamics:
Recognizing Warning Signs: Ariel candidly discussed how she overlooked crucial red flags in her relationship with her ex-husband, such as his anger issues and concerning behavior when under the influence. These warning signs were apparent early on but were not addressed or questioned at the time.
Family Background: Ariel stressed the importance of comprehending a partner's family background. She revealed that her ex-husband came from a family with a history of abuse and dysfunctional dynamics, potentially influencing his behavior. This underscores the need to investigate and understand a partner's family history to identify potential issues or patterns.
Impact on Children: Ariel's experience highlighted how family dynamics and relationships can impact children. Her son exhibited fear and discomfort around her ex-husband's behavior, illustrating the influence of family dynamics on children's emotional well-being.
Seeking Support: Ariel's friend played a pivotal role in supporting her by consistently checking in and encouraging open communication. This underscores the importance of having a supportive network that provides a safe space to discuss concerns and red flags in relationships.
Moving Forward: Ariel's journey of seeking therapy, letting go of false responsibilities, and focusing on self-healing underscores the importance of introspection and self-care after enduring challenging relationships. Addressing past traumas, understanding family dynamics, and prioritizing mental and emotional well-being are crucial before entering new relationships.
This episode highlights the importance of exploring family dynamics and relationships to identify issues, patterns, and warning signs. Understanding a partner's family background can empower individuals to make informed decisions, recognize red flags, and prioritize emotional well-being in relationships.
The episode also emphasizes the significance of having a supportive friend who consistently checks in and ensures one's well-being, especially in toxic situations. Ariel's friend's unwavering support created a safe space for open communication, enabling Ariel to address the challenges she faced.
A supportive friend's persistent presence can be instrumental in helping individuals navigate toxic situations. By offering genuine care and encouragement, such friendships provide the strength needed to address toxicity and make positive changes.
Overall, the podcast episode underscores the importance of having a supportive friend who prioritizes well-being. This kind of friendship can help individuals recognize, address, and overcome toxic situations.
Seeking therapy, letting go of false responsibilities, and allowing time for healing are essential steps in moving forward from abusive relationships. Ariel B.'s journey of healing and self-discovery exemplifies the importance of these actions in overcoming the aftermath of abuse.
Ariel's experience highlights the significance of therapy in processing the emotional impact of abuse. Therapy provides a safe space to explore feelings, address deep-rooted issues, and develop healthy coping mechanisms.
Disassociating from false responsibilities is crucial in the healing process. Recognizing that the abuse was not their fault empowers individuals to prioritize their well-being and healing.
Taking time to process and heal is vital in recovering from abusive relationships. Ariel's journey of self-reflection and therapy showcases the importance of allowing oneself the necessary time and space to heal from emotional wounds.
In essence, Ariel's story emphasizes the importance of seeking therapy, letting go of false responsibilities, and dedicating time to heal as essential steps in overcoming the effects of abusive relationships. These actions empower individuals to prioritize mental health and embark on a journey towards healing and self-empowerment.
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National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233
https://www.thehotline.org/
***Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233). https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/internet-safety/and remember to clear your browser history after visiting this website.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.
This week we are joined by Ariel B., host of "This Too Shall Pass" podcast, who bravely shared her personal journey of surviving an abusive relationship, and finding herself after so many major life changing experiences. She sheds light on the importance of understanding family dynamics and relationships, particularly when warning signs are present, and how that directly impacted her life.
More detailed show notes below.
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233
https://www.thehotline.org/
***Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233). https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/internet-safety/and remember to clear your browser history after visiting this website.
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Interested in traveling and don't want to go alone? Take this survey now for an upcoming trip! https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/D872Z88
SPONSORED OFFERS
Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at https://www.lumedeodorant.com! #lumepod
Try VIIA Hemp!https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbVhObGhJU3RlU1dRcVBXQi1oMXJRdkhFX0lHd3xBQ3Jtc0ttQmFjYmhkNFUwNFZVeG9lR3BhLXZuNnVYQ1FNYlZBYUhqWlZERnlzT2JxVHVwRk1vNEdwOFBCd2p1MUpxMkRSS0tRcHlGbEJJSWxkTHpiUE1ncTRhSjVHSGhySWRDajBaNExaMmhvYVp2UG1MMHBFOA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fbit.ly%2F3J1UitO&v=rID81M3KmOYhttps://bit.ly/3J1UitO and use code COCKTALES!
Go to https://www.songfinch.com/COCKTALES and start your song – after you purchase, you’ll be prompted to add Spotify Streaming for your original song for FREE - a $50 value!
For more special offers for our listeners please visit https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads
Follow Us on Ig & TikTok
@cocktalespodcast
@kikisaidso
@coffeebeandean
Follow our guest
@the_arielb and Check out her podcast https://www.thistooshallpasspod.com
Join Patreon
https://www.patreon.com/Cocktales
Here are key takeaways from the episode that emphasize the significance of delving deeper into family dynamics:
Recognizing Warning Signs: Ariel candidly discussed how she overlooked crucial red flags in her relationship with her ex-husband, such as his anger issues and concerning behavior when under the influence. These warning signs were apparent early on but were not addressed or questioned at the time.
Family Background: Ariel stressed the importance of comprehending a partner's family background. She revealed that her ex-husband came from a family with a history of abuse and dysfunctional dynamics, potentially influencing his behavior. This underscores the need to investigate and understand a partner's family history to identify potential issues or patterns.
Impact on Children: Ariel's experience highlighted how family dynamics and relationships can impact children. Her son exhibited fear and discomfort around her ex-husband's behavior, illustrating the influence of family dynamics on children's emotional well-being.
Seeking Support: Ariel's friend played a pivotal role in supporting her by consistently checking in and encouraging open communication. This underscores the importance of having a supportive network that provides a safe space to discuss concerns and red flags in relationships.
Moving Forward: Ariel's journey of seeking therapy, letting go of false responsibilities, and focusing on self-healing underscores the importance of introspection and self-care after enduring challenging relationships. Addressing past traumas, understanding family dynamics, and prioritizing mental and emotional well-being are crucial before entering new relationships.
This episode highlights the importance of exploring family dynamics and relationships to identify issues, patterns, and warning signs. Understanding a partner's family background can empower individuals to make informed decisions, recognize red flags, and prioritize emotional well-being in relationships.
The episode also emphasizes the significance of having a supportive friend who consistently checks in and ensures one's well-being, especially in toxic situations. Ariel's friend's unwavering support created a safe space for open communication, enabling Ariel to address the challenges she faced.
A supportive friend's persistent presence can be instrumental in helping individuals navigate toxic situations. By offering genuine care and encouragement, such friendships provide the strength needed to address toxicity and make positive changes.
Overall, the podcast episode underscores the importance of having a supportive friend who prioritizes well-being. This kind of friendship can help individuals recognize, address, and overcome toxic situations.
Seeking therapy, letting go of false responsibilities, and allowing time for healing are essential steps in moving forward from abusive relationships. Ariel B.'s journey of healing and self-discovery exemplifies the importance of these actions in overcoming the aftermath of abuse.
Ariel's experience highlights the significance of therapy in processing the emotional impact of abuse. Therapy provides a safe space to explore feelings, address deep-rooted issues, and develop healthy coping mechanisms.
Disassociating from false responsibilities is crucial in the healing process. Recognizing that the abuse was not their fault empowers individuals to prioritize their well-being and healing.
Taking time to process and heal is vital in recovering from abusive relationships. Ariel's journey of self-reflection and therapy showcases the importance of allowing oneself the necessary time and space to heal from emotional wounds.
In essence, Ariel's story emphasizes the importance of seeking therapy, letting go of false responsibilities, and dedicating time to heal as essential steps in overcoming the effects of abusive relationships. These actions empower individuals to prioritize mental health and embark on a journey towards healing and self-empowerment.
Want to sponsor or collaborate with us? contact us at [email protected]
Interested in being a guest?
Please contact [email protected] and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links!
Contact Us! Advice: [email protected]
Cocktales: [email protected]
Weird Sex: [email protected]
Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected]
Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected]
Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at https://www.imcurioustoknow.com
Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki https://www.klassybaste.com
Join Kiki's Book Club https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/a-taste-of-paradise-with-a-splash-of-vibes-tickets-880925340407?aff=ebdshpsearchautocomplete
Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe
Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com
Interested in sponsoring or sending us PR Packages?? Contact [email protected] today!
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233
https://www.thehotline.org/
***Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233). https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/internet-safety/and remember to clear your browser history after visiting this website.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.
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| 0:00.0 | Yeah, Check one two, check one two. Is this Mike on? Is this Mike on? Hey, |
| 0:06.7 | listen man, it's the one and only trends of the DJ since and you're listening to |
| 0:10.3 | cocktails. Dirty discussions with Kiki and Medina, Monroe, yeah. Today's cost cell is called, I'm not a regular mom. I'm a cool mom. The ingredients you need to make |
| 0:28.2 | this are two ounces of gin, a half ounce of lavender syrup, a half ounce of fresh |
| 0:32.4 | lemon juice, some edible |
| 0:33.9 | lavender buds for garnish, and you're going to shake the gin, the lavender |
| 0:37.4 | syrup and the lemon juice with ice, strain into a chilled martini glass, garnish |
| 0:41.8 | with edible lavender buds for the fragrant finish. |
| 0:45.8 | And that is a, I'm not a regular mom, I'm a cool mom. |
| 0:50.0 | Welcome back to Cocktails Dirty Discussions you guys. |
| 0:53.2 | Hey y'all. |
| 0:54.1 | I love a good lavender drink. |
| 0:56.4 | I've been drinking the ones at Starbucks. |
| 0:58.1 | I love a cocktail with it. |
| 1:00.0 | Now it's so funny because I love a lavender cocktail. I tried the lavender starbox drink and I was like who put this together? |
| 1:06.1 | It was the machea one? No not the machea. Just the chai tea. |
| 1:11.2 | Oh I didn't do the chai tea latte withte and I was like this is so cute in springtime I was so mad but I still |
| 1:17.6 | drank it because it was Starbucks it was 10 11 it was yeah that's just hard |
| 1:21.1 | $10.11 cents I like the little oat milk latte, but yes, |
| 1:25.0 | any announcements for you this week? |
| 1:27.0 | I just want to remind everybody |
| 1:29.0 | get your tickets to the cocktail making class, |
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