One of the biggest things that women ask me about is compatibility.

You know, it's unfortunate when you end up married to someone and then you learn later on you're not really compatible.

You thought you were compatible, but it turns out you're not.

And that's a really serious thing to get surprised with because that is your partner for the rest of your life.

Some women who are married call me about that and they tell me and I understand

their pain and then they're trying to work backwards and figure out what you do. I don't need that

to happen for you. If you are a woman who's looking for a spouse, there is a definite way or

definite ways to figure that out without having that. And if you are a woman who's married,

we can always talk. There are ways to figure that out. But the easier way is to do it before.

And that's what this podcast is about giving you secrets on exactly how to get a better approach

on how to figure out if he I'm your host, Mindfulness. I'm coming to you every week. And lately I've been doing a lot more because I've been getting so many requests.

I can't cover them in just once a week. So we are trying to do this with one of the biggest topics

we talk about with women, which is how to find a guy, the right guy. A lot of women are out there

trying to do it, but they're not necessarily doing it right. So we're getting these little

bits of advice that will help you do it in a way that

will help you to avoid the emotional suck in. Make sure you have the right boundaries, make sure that

you don't get hurt in ways that could have been avoided, how to know green flags, red flags,

all the stuff we got you covered here. Now, at Hamsari Lada, but I don't mean, I just wanted to say

I just got off of a challenge day number one.

You guys know we have the Spousy Speaking Challenge, so today was Challenge Day number one.

I just got out the space with the sisters. We sat there for a good hour within the challenge,

and we just hashed out everything they are worried about. All of their burning questions. And I let them

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