Ep 385 Young Loves, Strong Roots

Marriage Therapy Radio

MTR

Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Therapy, Health & Fitness, Marriage, Relationships, Mental Health, Education

4.6 • 690 Ratings

🗓️ 12 August 2025

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

Zach talks with Sarah Rhoades and her boyfriend Grady, a young couple navigating the first year of their relationship. They share how a chance meeting at Grady’s backyard open mic, where he held a microphone for Sarah’s banjo, turned into an unexpected connection built on shared values, openness, and adventure.

Sarah and Grady reflect on blending friend groups, learning from divorced parents, and building a “tree trunk” foundation strong enough to handle differences in interests. They discuss the balance between independence and togetherness, the role of transparency, and their approach to the looming challenge of Sarah heading to college. With humor and thoughtfulness, they explore what it means to be intentional about connection, no matter your age.

Shared values beat shared hobbies: They connect on deeper principles and character rather than just liking the same activities.
Integration matters: Early on, they made intentional efforts to include each other in separate friend groups, creating a unified social circle.
Independence strengthens the unit: Inspired by Sarah’s grandparents, they value being able to live individual lives while staying connected as a couple.
Radical honesty as a reaction to secrecy: Grady’s experience with passive-aggressive family dynamics led him to favor openness and directness.
Parents notice the positive impact: Both sets of parents appreciate how the relationship brings out the best in them.
Facing change together: They’re preparing for the shift when Sarah leaves for college, focusing on communication and balance over fear.
Resisting cultural shortcuts: Despite living in a hookup culture, they see commitment as natural once you find the right person.

Sarah Rhoades
A recent high school graduate and musician, Sarah plays banjo and values independence, adventure, and intentional connection.

Grady
A high school senior who runs a backyard open mic, Grady brings openness, curiosity, and a commitment to honesty into the relationship.

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0:00.0	Hey, everybody. Welcome. And thank you for listening to this episode of Marriage Therapy Radio. My name is Zach Brittle. This is a cool one because I got an email from a listener. As you know, I've been asking if you, dear listeners, would like to come on the podcast and share your story. This one listener wrote and said, I'm not interested in coming on, but my kids might be. How about you talk to them? And so I was like, you bet. So Sarah Rhodes and Grady have come on the podcast. They are young. Sarah Rhodes just graduated from high school. Grady is going to be a senior. They've been dating for about seven months. And I really just wanted to know, like, what is that like? You know, I have so many couples tell me they sort of wish they
0:38.3	could go back to the beginning and so i thought maybe it'll be cool to talk to people at the beginning
0:43.3	and these guys uh have some wisdom that is uh really intriguing to hear about and i'm rooting for them
0:49.4	i have no idea if they'll stay together forever or if they will uh i don't know. I don't know. But like I said, I'm rooting for them. And I think you'll enjoy hearing from them. I want to remind you that Marriage Therapy Radio is sponsored by the app called Paired, which is a great way to connect to your partner on a daily basis around different kinds of games and questions. If that's of interest to you, go to pared.com slash mTR and download that
1:13.2	app. It's important to use that code MTR so that they know that you heard about us here. As always,
1:18.9	you can become a member on Patreon. That's marriage therapy.com. Click on the Patreon button or
1:22.9	patreon.com slash marriage therapy radio. Those of you who are are paid members really do help us keep the lights on
1:28.9	and i'm excited about that and if you are a free member thanks for paying attention and i hope that
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1:38.7	best way to support us as we continue to try to bring content to you for now though i'll let you
1:44.1	hear from sar Sarah Rhodes and from
1:46.4	Grady. This is a very cool conversation. Stick around. Okay, Sarah Rhodes, Grady, thank you for coming
1:53.9	to Marish Therapy Radio. So this is weird how this came about. Your mom listens to the podcast.
1:59.3	And she wrote me and said, I don't want to come on the podcast with my husband, but you know
2:05.6	who would like to come on the podcast is my daughter and her boyfriend.
2:08.8	And I was like, that sounds interesting.
2:11.1	And so that's you.
2:13.2	You're the daughter and you're the boyfriend.
2:15.5	Who are you guys?
2:16.8	Like, where do you live?
2:18.2	What's your story?
2:18.9	How did you end up being on marriage therapy radio?
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