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Feminist Wellness

Ep #381: The People-Pleasing Trap: Keeping Everyone Happy but You

Feminist Wellness

Béa Victoria Albina

Health & Fitness, Education, Alternative Health, Mental Health, Self-improvement

4.91.1K Ratings

🗓️ 4 June 2026

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

#381: What happens when you stop people pleasing and the people around you are no longer pleased?

If the thought of setting boundaries, speaking up, or disappointing someone makes your nervous system panic, this episode will hit home. I explore why so many of us stay stuck in over-functioning, over-giving, and self-abandonment, and why growth often comes with discomfort from the people who benefited from the old version of you.

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Hey, quick little love note before we dive in and emotional outsourcing is out and reviews

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are the thing that actually moves the needle for a book like this from a new author.

0:12.1

If you've already ordered or listened, come drop some stars and a sentence or 20 on

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You can leave a review without even buying there. It's a weird loophole

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that works in our favor. Then come to Beatricealbina.com slash book with your screenshot because I have

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raffles and gifts waiting for you, breathwork, audiobook copies, even coaching with me, a whole pile of thank yous for helping to get end

0:40.6

emotional outsourcing into more hands, which is what your review can do.

1:03.3

This is Feminist Wellness, and I'm your host, nurse practitioner, somatics, and nervous system nerd, and life coach, Bea Victoria Albina.

1:10.5

I'll show you how to get unstuck, drop the anxiety, perfectionism, and codependency, so you can live from your beautiful heart. Welcome, my love. Let's get

1:12.2

started. Hello, hello, my love. I hope this finds you doing so well. So we've been doing this

1:22.0

little series called The Work. In this series, we've been looking at the emotional patterns that

1:26.8

are keeping us

1:28.0

stuck even when we are trying so hard to grow. One of the most uncomfortable parts of change is

1:37.1

realizing that not everyone benefits from the healthier version of you, which means not everyone's

1:42.4

going to like it. And people are

1:44.5

going to push back. So one of the biggest fears that comes up when I talk to people about change and

1:49.5

making change, like when people are interested in joining Anchored, I often ask, like, what might

1:54.9

keep you from saying yes? Not just to Anchard itself. Angert, if you're new here, Anchored is my six-month

2:00.8

deep dive coaching program, but what might

2:03.3

keep you from saying yes to doing this work to overcome emotional outsourcing to end emotional

2:08.6

outsourcing in your life?

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