One of the worst things to do post break up or after you have detached from somebody else is to keep in open loop and the energy going back and forth.

Now in this video, I'm going to share with you the solution that changes everything, makes it so much easier, actually makes it a higher probability that you are in your own frame, in your own energy.

And then there is an attractive energy there, so it actually magnetizes more to you. I'm going to show you exactly what to do, how to do it, and why it is absolutely necessary as a next step.

Now the first thing with this process is let's talk about what the no contact rule is.

And let's also talk about what happens when you go through a breakup or you go through a separation for somebody else. What normally happens is there is an energy that is entangled when you are with somebody else.

And you are thinking of this person a lot, you are maybe even physically around this person a lot.

And what ends up happening is there's a lot of energy that's going back and forth.

And there are energy that's literally entangled with this other person. Now what happens is when there is a breakup that happens or there is some type of separation that happens, the energy then starts to separate.

Now what happens is sometimes one of the people may not want that separation to happen, so they energetically cling on.

Now what happens is when somebody is energetically clinging on, even after the relationship has fulfilled its purpose or at least it's ended.

What happens is as we think about people, we are literally sending them energy. I know this sounds a little bit esoteric, but it is something that quantum physics shows us is that everything exists here and now.

And you would probably maybe even experience this before when you think of somebody and they call you or you have certain intuition on different things.

It's important to understand how this energy dynamic works because when you are thinking of somebody else, you are sending them energy.

Now if you went through a breakup with someone, you may be thinking about how what happened wasn't something that you wanted to happen.

You may be feeling lack, you may be feeling very sad, you may be feeling that attachment doesn't feel so good.

So the energy that's being sent to them is something is I feel lack, I feel sad and that energy they are feeling.

Now in general when you go through a process of unmeshing or de-separation or unattaching, sometimes it can be because maybe somebody else wants space.

Maybe they want to be in their own energy field and they don't, especially when you talk about attachment styles, you talk about anxious and avoidant attachment styles, what's tend to attract each other.

There's secure attachment, anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, secure attachments you are able to give and receive love easily.

A lot of times they tend to be in relationships, not always, but a lot of times.

Anxious attachment people lean in for love and sometimes they are trying to fix other people trying to make the relationship work.

And then avoidant people on the other side of that, avoidant attachment style, normally pushing away love is a little bit afraid to get there's an intimacy block there and they feel more safe and dependent and by their own energy.

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