It's a new month and that means it's time for a visit to our favorite website every day feminism.

Now, at this point I usually make some cheap, stupid joke comparing our monthly visit to the website with a woman's menstrual cycle,

implying that reading every day feminism is sort of like experiencing cramps and discomfort,

uncontrollable mood swings, bordering on insanity, that leave you feeling as if you're always angry at everyone all the time.

But today I'm going to refrain from degrading myself by stooping to that sort of low humor because I trust my audience is able to do that on their own.

So let's just get right to a post on every day feminism called the differences between the terms gay and queer and why it matters.

And folks, just to show you why I love this website so much, I'm going to read the beginning of this article word for word so help me.

The author Harry Zayad writes quote, for a while I thought I was gay and maybe I was for some of that time.

There's nothing wrong with being gay, but I'm definitely not now.

I thought I was gay because I thought I was a man and I thought I was only and always attracted to other men.

I don't know what gender I am anymore if any.

I knew before coming to that particular realization that I'm also not only and haven't always been attracted to men additionally, I realized I don't know what exactly attraction means.

Word for word I swear. The author continues quote, I know for certain I'm not heterosexual without a stable gender, I'm not even sure I could be.

And when I first began to have these self-revelations, I also knew that it's space to explore all of these complications.

As I spent time figuring out what they meant, I discovered that if I must have an identification that makes sense to others who need to see me with some sort of stability, it would be queer.

Unquote. Now, I know what you're wondering. Does this guy have a job or does he just sit around with his head?

It's on advance trying to figure out what sexy is all day.

I mean, come on, this is not rocket scientists. Science, if you're watching baseball on TV and holding the remote, you're probably a man.

And if you're a woman, would you please bring me another beer and some chips? How tough is this?

Hari's I add concludes quote, gainus and queerness are two different things.

But sometimes gainus is a part of queerness and vice versa. So be queer, be gay, be both, be neither, but be you.

Actually, I'm not sure be you as such great advice for this guy. Maybe he should try be someone who does something useful with your life or be someone who keeps your personal problems to yourself.

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