Simply watching this video right here will increase the probability of someone actually coming back.

And in this video I'm going to show you the five reasons.

Someone will come back and the five things you can actually do about it that will help shift the energy so that you actually attract it back.

The first reason they may come back has to do with the grass being greener and realizing that it's not as good as they may have thought.

And what happens with this is people sometimes they get at level of security or a level of certainty with somebody else.

And they may in their mind then think maybe the grass is greener.

So what they do is they go out they explore and then they find out that it's not as hyped up as it was in their mind.

So one of the things that you can do that will really allow this process to work itself out is to simply release attachment.

Now think of it energetically.

The more someone is attached to somebody else, the more they are sending them energy, the more that they then feel repelled.

So many times what could actually be blocking somebody from coming to their own conclusions is an energy balance to where somebody is projecting energy at someone else.

Because remember people feel what you feel.

And if you are feeling lack, if you are feeling like you really wish something would be in your life but it's not, then that lack is going out and someone else when they think of you, they are feeling the same thing.

They're feeling what you feel.

In a way it's almost like as we think of someone, we're tapping into the energy that they're feeling in that moment energetically.

And this is why one of the most powerful things you can do is to simply let go of attachment and allow someone to learn what they are learning.

Because that then gives space for somebody else to come to their own realizations. The more we try to control what someone is thinking or doing or whether they are enjoying themselves or whatever it is, the more we try to control it, the more they can feel it and the more it actually repels it.

It's an interesting, energetic balance.

And I've noticed it in so many of my friends that maybe go through a breakup, maybe have a hard time not thinking about somebody but almost every single time.

The moment they really take back their energy and they release attachment and by the way they're not releasing attachment to then get this person to come back.

They're releasing attachment because they're starting to put the energy more inside themselves.

Like nine times out of ten, it ends up coming back to them anyways. And then they have a choice to make. You know, why do I re-engage or do I actually maintain my boundaries?

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