The degree to which you are detached from carrying what other people think of you,

the more people will attach themselves to your energy. Because it's magnetic to not

need anyone else's validation, to not need anyone else's text message back,

to not need implies the most amount of value. So in this video, we're going to be talking about

detachment, why it's so magnetic, how you can tap into the energy of it, and how you can really

let go of the things that maybe making your energy field more sporadic. Maybe you're feeling more

needy, you're really wanting someone to text you back, you check the internet connection to see if

maybe it's just the internet connections, what's causing you not to get the text message or whatever

it is. And the thing with this process is it's understanding the energy that you are putting out

into the world. Because think of it like an energy field. Now your energy field has within it,

the thoughts, the emotions of feelings that you're feeling. And if you're feeling like I need

something out there to come in here that's saying I lack something inside my own energy field

and the lack is then also can only allow in more lack. So you will either attract people that

don't give you that sense of validation or approval or whatever it is, or you'll find yourself

not able to attract love altogether. So it's like one of the two because beliefs create our reality.

Whatever we believe to be true, that's the experience we get. And if we have a belief even that like

you know for a long time I had to believe that woman in my life tried to control me. So I would only

attract woman that were either jealous or trying to control me for years. Because that was my belief.

There were even times when I could see that I attracted people that weren't that way but I

literally turned them down and I wasn't interested because it did not fall within the belief that I

had that woman tried to control me. And that stemmed of course from childhood from the whole

ex-step mom situation from 7 to 15 years old. So in our energy field, if we feel lack, we will

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