Ep. 343 - I lost my chance at love, my ex was everything I ever wanted
How to Get Over Your Ex
Dorothy AB Johnson
4.7 • 577 Ratings
🗓️ 1 June 2026
⏱️ 20 minutes
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Summary
If you feel like your ex was your one shot at love and now you're terrified you'll never find someone like them again, this episode is going to challenge the way you're thinking about your breakup in the best possible way. We're talking about the painful belief that your ex was "everything" you ever wanted, why that thought creates so much hopelessness after a breakup, and how it quietly keeps you emotionally attached to someone who already chose to leave. I walk you through the mindset shifts and specific exercises I use with my clients to help you separate what you truly want in a partner from the fantasy your heartbreak brain has built around your ex. If part of you still believes you lost your future when the relationship ended, this episode will help you start seeing the breakup very differently.
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| 0:00.0 | You are listening to How to Get Over Your Ex, episode number 343. I lost my chance at love. |
| 0:07.0 | My ex was everything I ever wanted. |
| 0:20.4 | Welcome to How to Get Over Your Ex, a podcast on getting over your ex without it just taking time. |
| 0:26.6 | I'm your host, breakup coach Dorothy. |
| 0:28.9 | Let's turn your pain into power and your heartbreak into happy. |
| 0:36.6 | Hello, hello, beautiful brave hearts. How are you doing? I love you. I hope you're having an |
| 0:42.2 | okay week. Honestly, I hope you're having a great week, but I know sometimes that can be |
| 0:46.3 | frustrating when I'm like, I hope you're doing so great and clearly you're listening to the |
| 0:49.8 | How to Get Over your X podcast because maybe you're going through the most epic heartbreak of your life. |
| 0:55.8 | So I'm sending you so much love. I'm sending you the most biggest, delicious hug in the entire world. |
| 1:02.7 | Now, before we get started, you guys, something epic has happened, we have opened the doors. |
| 1:08.7 | We have officially opened the doors to the Get Over |
| 1:10.9 | Your X program today. June 1st, I am so excited. So the Get Over Your X program is open for enrollment |
| 1:18.0 | again. I am so pumped. I haven't done a live training in forever. And so we did a live |
| 1:24.2 | training and we opened the doors to get over your X. I'm so pumped. So inside of the get over your ex in 90 days or less, meaning zero desire, zero attachment, |
| 1:32.9 | no longer being at the effect of your ex in any way. And most importantly, you are building |
| 1:39.0 | and living a bigger and better life than the one that you had with your ex. So perhaps that is all about |
| 1:44.7 | meeting your husband. Maybe you're wanting to make that career change or buying your dream home, |
| 1:49.3 | whatever your bigger and better life is that you feel like is not available without your ex. |
| 1:54.4 | We go out and we build it. So if you know you want to work with me to guarantee being over your ex |
| 1:59.2 | in 90 days from now, you can enroll at |
| 2:01.9 | Dorothyabjohnson.com forward slash get over your ex. The link will be in the show notes. |
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