Ep 334 - Making Sense of the Pain that our Family Can Cause Us
Mindful Muslimah Speaks
Mindful Muslimah Speaks
4.8 • 855 Ratings
🗓️ 27 May 2022
⏱️ 35 minutes
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Summary
In this episode we talk about how the Prophet PBUH handled conflict and the initial step of seeking to understand and then respond.
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| 0:00.0 | Have you ever felt like you have expressed your displeasure with another family member? |
| 0:05.5 | It could be a parent, it could be a spouse, or someone else extended, and you were made to feel like your opinion was selfish. |
| 0:13.5 | It was wrong of you to bring up the pain you had. |
| 0:16.0 | Why are you rocking the boat? Why are you making trouble? |
| 0:18.0 | Why do you have to always be a problem? |
| 0:20.0 | Why do you always have to be difficult? Where you as a female are just expressing some hurts, some pain |
| 0:24.7 | and some suffering and you would like you to stop. I mean, isn't it our right? So in this episode, |
| 0:32.4 | I want to talk about that exactly how to manage the pain that sometimes our family can cause and our position when |
| 0:40.6 | we're made to feel like we're not supposed to talk about that we're not supposed to bring it up |
| 0:45.5 | we're not supposed to be difficult as females in the in the family what do we do with that |
| 0:51.6 | what does the profit piece be upon and say how could we approach that in the best of ways and still have our feelings understood, acknowledged, and all that? |
| 1:00.0 | Let's talk about it. |
| 1:18.1 | Thank you. You know, they tell us we need to talk to a guy in the halal way and ask the right questions and that sounds great and everything, but what does that even look like? |
| 1:21.9 | And how do we do it? |
| 1:23.3 | And as you try to figure it out yourself, you don't know what you're doing wrong, but you |
| 1:26.7 | know it isn't working. And then the worst part after a while is you start to figure it out yourself, you don't know what you're doing wrong, but you know it isn't working. |
| 1:28.3 | And then the worst part after a while is you start to feel like, is there's something wrong with me? |
| 1:33.3 | And then the even bigger problem is you start searching online in mosques and centers and no one's teaching this stuff. |
| 1:39.3 | And even our family's back home version is often not the true Islamic way. |
| 1:43.3 | I created a mindfulness |
| 1:44.6 | in my brand out of 25 years of experience of knowing exactly what women want and need. |
| 1:49.3 | And we just opened our very first live workshop on interviewing guys that will help you go from |
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