Ep #319: How to Disagree with Someone

The Life Coach School Podcast

Brooke Castillo

Education, Entrepreneurship, Business, Self-improvement

4.8 • 9.2K Ratings

🗓️ 7 May 2020

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

I believe that disagreeing is an art, and today I share my suggestions for how to use disagreement as a way to connect instead of disconnect and to gain a better understanding of other people and the world in general.

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0:00.0	You are listening to the Life Coach School Podcast with Brook Castillo episode number 319.
0:07.6	Welcome to the Life Coach School Podcast, where it's all about real clients, real problems, and real coaching.
0:16.4	And now your host, Master Coach Instructor, Brook Castillo.
0:22.0	Well, hello, my friends. Have you guys been loving the Private Podcasts?
0:29.4	All the conversations that I've been having with my friends and I've been giving you tastes here, but all the ones in scholars have even loved them. We're doing upcoming.
0:40.6	I have my friend Chris Placky. I'm going to ask Christine Cain. I'm going to ask Amy Porterfield. I'm going to ask Todd Herman.
0:48.2	Actually Todd said he would already do it. I'm going to have him on and then you guys know, Tony Lee.
0:54.2	I'm going to have a conversation with her. I'm going to have some good stuff, you guys. So I just did one with Corinne and it was really revealing.
1:01.4	We talked about a lot of our own personal stuff and they're just casual conversations. Just chatting about the personal stuff, not trying to teach anything.
1:10.0	Just kind of you ease dropping on our conversation. So I've heard that you've been enjoying them. I'm glad.
1:16.6	Yay.
1:19.0	Let's talk about how to disagree with someone.
1:24.6	I have to tell you all I'm going to be honest. You're not very good at it.
1:31.4	Most of you are not good at disagreeing without getting mad.
1:36.2	So I just want to tell you that you can have a conversation with someone and completely disagree about something and still love each other.
1:44.0	Still hold hands. Still hug it out. Still stay calm and peaceful and loving and all the things.
1:52.0	You don't have to get upset. You don't have to get mad. You don't have to get happy.
1:56.8	But let's think about it. Why do we have such a hard time disagreeing with other people and staying calm?
2:06.2	Why do we feel like we either need to make the person agree with us or eliminate the person?
2:13.6	I mean, it's rampant. You guys can see this everywhere. It is rampant that we have a hard time having different ideas about things and having calm conversations about our disagreements without trying to convince each other to change their minds.
2:33.0	So I want you to think about the last time you had a conversation with someone where they completely had a different opinion than you did.
2:40.0	And you didn't try and change their mind. You didn't try to have them see it your way.
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