EP 317: Healing the Mother Wound with Abigail

Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

Christine Hassler

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.8 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 6 October 2021

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

This episode is about doing inner child work to heal the mother wound. Today's caller, Abigail, feels she is struggling to connect with her feminine energy but we discover that she is being triggered by her circumstances and it is revealing a coping strategy she relied on in her childhood. We discuss ways she can make the most of this healing opportunity.

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You can't really tap into true masculine and feminine until you do inner child work. Because we can confuse being in our feminine or masculine energy with protective behaviors and coping strategies. It is important for us to find our divine mother and father energy but healing our childhood wounds is the starting point.

When past trauma in her child wounding is triggered, it is an invitation for us to deal with it by speaking to our little one and giving them a voice. It makes it much easier to trust because our inner child isn't tugging at us telling us they are not okay.

What keeps some people from doing inner child work is that they think they have to relive their trauma or relive memories of their childhoods. It is possible to heal your childhood and connect with your inner child even if you have no memories or traumatic memories.

When we are given pauses in life, or when we feel we are in limbo, they are opportunities for us to focus on our inner work.

Join us for our LIVE Inner Child Workshop on October 8–10th. It will be the last live inner child workshop taught by Christine and Stefanos for a while. Get live coaching or attend the workshop online ChristineHassler.com/InnerChild. If you can't make it live you can get the recording. If you need help financially go to ChristineHassler.com/Scholarship.

Consider/Ask Yourself:

Are you struggling with identifying what is masculine and feminine energy? Or, you are not sure how to be in your masculine or feminine?
Have you worked on the mother wound and know intuitively there is still more to do?
Do you identify with being a caretaker? Someone who takes care of other people's needs as a way to try and get your own needs met?
As a child, were you more in the parent role than you were in the child role? Did a parent count on you for emotional support? Did they confide in you? Were you more of a friend to them and not allowed to truly be a kid?

Abigail's Question:

Abigail struggles with staying in her feminine energy.

Abigail's Key Insights and Ahas:

She has had a lot of uncertainty in her life.
She has difficulty adjusting and trusting changes.
She holds fear about changes in her life.
She frequently changes her residence.
She left her nursing career to be a doula.
Her parents dealt with uncertainty differently.
She didn't have a good role model for embracing uncertainty.
She didn't feel safe as a child.
Caretaking became a coping strategy for her.
She beats herself up emotionally.
She felt responsible for everyone else's happiness.
She wants to be free to express her needs.
Her mom treated her like a friend and not a child.
She feels worthless if she isn't caring for others.
Her partner feels safe to her.

How to Get Over It and On With It:

Check-in with little Abigail to see how she is.
Accept and have compassion for herself.
Give her rage a voice and write an F-U letter to her mother.
This is a healing opportunity for her. She is exactly where she needs to be.
Join the Inner Child Workshop.
Check out the Mother Wound Coaches Corner and the work of Bethany Webster.

Takeaways:

Use the pauses in your life to give your inner child a voice and to heal unhealed wounding.

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0:00.0	This is episode 317, healing at the mother wound with Abigail.
0:06.6	Welcome to Over It and On With It.
0:08.9	I'm your host, Christine Hasler, and for over a decade, I've been a live coach, speaker, and author.
0:14.2	Each week, you'll hear me work directly with a caller as I coach them through a goal they want to accomplish or an obstacle they may be facing.
0:20.4	I'll provide a blend of practical and spiritual advice as well as tangible actions you can apply to your own life.
0:26.0	Now, let's get on with the episode.
0:31.0	Hi, everybody.
0:33.0	Well, this caller came at the perfect time because we had just finished recording the coach's corner episode with Bethany Webster.
0:42.0	I hope that you listened to that over the weekend.
0:45.0	If you haven't, definitely, definitely have a listen to that.
0:48.0	We talked about discovering the inner mother and healing the mother wound.
0:52.0	And this is huge, this is huge for mothers and daughters, mothers and sons.
0:57.0	This is huge for any of you who have children.
1:00.0	And it's just so important for all of us to find our own inner mother.
1:04.0	We talk about finding the inner parent a lot.
1:07.0	And when we teach the inner child workshop, we actually start to distinguish between the inner mother or that some people prefer to say that divine feminine loving energy and the inner father or that really divine fatherly loving protective energy and the differentiation between the two.
1:25.0	So we want to have an idea of our inner parent, but to go even further our inner mother and our inner father.
1:31.0	And again, that's all stuff that we teach in the inner child workshop that is coming up this weekend.
1:36.0	So if you're listening now, it's not too late to register for listening later after we've taught the workshop.
1:41.0	The workshop is October 8th through 10th.
1:43.0	You can always go and purchase a recording.
1:45.0	And if you can't make it live, that's totally fine.
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