One of the number one blocks to attracting love is when people stay attached to their X.

That will literally make other options invisible to you and actually push people away.

Now in this video I'm going to show you the three ways to finally let go of your X

so that you can actually attract love.

The first way to get over your X is to realize that the meaning you give to your X,

the meaning you give to them, the story that you have about them, is what is keeping them on this

pedestal and making it hard to let go.

And the reason this is is because what relationships are for us is relationships are ways we create meaning.

Everything in our life has zero built in meaning other than the meaning we give it.

Now what happens is we have certain experiences with people

and a lot of times in a weird way we may actually go through a lot of pain with someone

but because that pain is something that feels familiar many times familiarized from childhood

we end up tagging a lot of attachment to it because it's familiar meaning.

So when we think about that of love the thing we need to realize is that what happens in a relationship

is we create beautiful meaning with someone and what we are actually afraid to let go of in a relationship

is the meaning.

That's why letting go is hard because we're actually letting go of the meaning we give to someone

because we also develop this story and this idea that this is the only person

and we are then in a scarcity mode.

But one of the things that I had to learn on my journey of this

is I had to learn to bring the energy back to myself.

I've been in relationships before where I create deep meaning with somebody

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