The degree to which someone is attractive depends on how attached their energy is.

So if somebody is not attached to what you think, someone is not attached to you giving the

validation, they're going to be much more attractive to you than if there's somebody that really

wants your validation, your approval, your attention, and you're going to be able to feel that

energy. That's the thing when it comes to attraction, love attracting love attracting abundance

or anything. Money and love follows value. That's just the way it works. Value. And when you are

being the most authentic version of you, when you are in your own frame, when you are being yourself,

that is the most value you're going to add out into the world. That is also when you're going to

be being that version of you because it's who you are, you're not going to be attached to outcome

because you're not being that version of you to get something, you're being it because it's who

you are. There's a very different energy with that. Like I just recorded part of this video, by the

way, I restarted it because I realized that I was thinking about too many things in the beginning

of this video. And I was trying to get the first part of this video to be what's called a hook,

something that hooks people in so that they watch the video. And it's this funny thing because if I

get too much in it and I'm doing the hook because I want you to watch the video, then you're going

to feel that energy and it's not something that attracts you to actually watching the video. But

if I'm just being myself, if I'm being authentic, if I'm being vulnerable, and if I'm making this

video because it's what I'm passionate about making, you're going to feel that energy and it's

going to be a very different experience. So the first point and the first thing that is very

important for us to realize is that attraction is 100% 100% in energy game. That's it. This is all

about energy. And the thing is, when we are not attached to outcome and when we're being in the

moment, we are way more attractive. And you know, when I used to, I always bring myself back to when

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