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Recovering From Reality

Ep. 3 Variations of Normal - Recovering From Reality

Recovering From Reality

Dear Media, Alexis Haines

Naiers, Education, Dear, Recovering, Alexis, From, Haines, Media, Reality, Health & Fitness

4.82.1K Ratings

🗓️ 18 March 2019

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

Being married to a Backstreet Boy isn't always easy. Rochelle McLean joins us today on the third episode of Recovering from Reality to talk about what it's like being married to a pop star, online bullying, body shaming, and more. "We're all reactive human beings, so how do we process this reactivity in a way that's healthy?" Alexis sits down with her dear friend Rochelle to talk about online "hate mail", raising body positive daughters, and... cream cheese pretzels! Rochelle is a private soul who's life got just a little crazy when she married Backstreet BoyAJ McLean. During this open-hearted episode, Rochelle shares her reality aka how she met AJ, her personal insecurities, and how she committed to a partner who's in recovery. This episode deals with relevant topics such as social media personas, the effects of online bullying, and woman on woman 'trolling'. We hear from some of our listeners and ask the question, "how to explain to your kids that people on the Internet are being mean?".

Thank you to everyone who helped make this episode a reality and a special shoutout to Ragamuffin Coffee Roasters for keeping our crew caffeinated... #andsoitis!

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0:00.0

Hey, it's Alexis Haynes and this is my podcast recovering from reality.

0:30.8

Hey guys, thank you so much for tuning in to listen to this episode. I am so excited to have

0:40.0

my dear friend, Rachelle on the podcast today. Rachelle and I have known each other for what is

0:48.2

it like a little over 10 years now, but we actually became friends when we had our oldest daughters,

0:56.0

Eva and Harper. They are now in kindergarten and they're little BFFs.

1:04.2

Rachelle is such a special person in my life and one of those people that just

1:14.1

is so authentic and just an amazing friend like it's really where oh don't

1:21.6

don't do it. She's already turned up now. I'm going to. She's just one of those people that's so

1:28.4

authentic and you know it's it's rare that you find a friendship that you feel like you can be

1:36.8

really open and honest from the beginning and just that that person accepts you and loves you

1:41.1

no matter what and even though we don't see each other all the time like I feel like anytime I'm

1:47.6

I need something I can go to Rachelle and and that you're you're a trust worthy friend and it's

1:55.0

amazing to have. Rachelle is not only a great friend but an awesome mom and she's living this

2:08.1

crazy life being married to a backstreet boy, AJ which is you know she's going to talk about

2:16.2

in a little bit but when I was telling her about the podcast and what we were doing and all of

2:23.6

that she was like oh well you should have AJ on because he's in recovery and I was like well

2:28.8

actually I want you on because she just has such an incredible story and I think you guys should

2:37.7

hear it and and so I want to talk to you I just want to get a little bit of your background and

2:44.0

you know like what you're all about and how you're about AJ and where we are because I feel

2:49.9

like so often spouses are seen as kind of you know what's the word I'm looking for they're just

3:02.2

they're not human. Human. They're not human and we're seeing this right now with this

3:11.7

whole Bradley Cooper and Lady Gaga thing where everyone's saying oh they're totally

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