Attachment and desire is the root of all suffering. It's what the Buddha said.

And in our lives, one of the most challenging things we can possibly go through is letting go

of something that we are either in our minds attached to, emotionally attached to, physically

attached to, and anything that we stay holding on, that creates a resistant energy.

Now, in the same way that attachment and desire is the root of all suffering,

so is it that when you treat someone like a celebrity, they will then treat you like a fan.

This is an energy dynamic type thing. And what we'll find is that in physical reality,

the way it works is people are responding to us based on the role we are playing,

and based on the energy we are putting out. So if we're putting out an energy that someone else

is on a pedestal, or someone else is the root to our happiness, then what ends up happening

is we end up depolarizing that dynamic and we end up setting the frame that somebody else is

a celebrity. And then of course they treat you like a fan. So with this dynamic and with understanding,

chasing someone else in general, and especially a specific person, it is something that will

completely destroy your life. And I say that because I also have seen the, not only in my own

life, but also that in on on YouTube. I made a video years ago, one of the first videos I made on

my YouTube channel back before it was even at like a hundred thousand subs. It was on three ways

to attract a specific person. And that video did really well. And most of the video though was

talking about how what you should do is let go. Now the thing is is what ends up happening is

people here let go and what they think is okay I'm going to let go of this person because then I'm

going to get them back. And it's a funny thing because when you do let go that actually does

increase the chance of that happening, but that's not the reason to do it. The reason to let go is

because there's a recognition there that that's not actually serving your own energy. So

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