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Infants on Thrones

Ep 291 – Verbal JiuJitsu

Infants on Thrones

Infants on Thrones

Personal Journals, Society & Culture, Philosophy

4.61.1K Ratings

🗓️ 17 July 2016

⏱️ 97 minutes

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Summary

Listener and fan of the show, Jake sits down with Tom and Kim Gustavsson to talk about his listener submitted essay titled, “Verbal JiuJitsu”. Kim’s company and website: http://accendeo.com/ “We must try to penetrate our most secret self, and examine our being from all sides. . . . And so, for the first time in my life perhaps (although I am supposed to meditate every day!), I took the lamp and, leaving the zone of everyday occupations and relationships where everything seems clear, I went down into my inmost self, to the deep abyss whence I feel dimly that my power of action emanates. But as I moved further and further away from the conventional certainties by which social life is superficially illuminated, I became aware that I was losing contact with myself. At each step of the descent a new person was disclosed within me of whose name I was no longer sure, and who no longer obeyed me. And when I had to stop my exploration because the path faded from beneath my steps, I found a bottomless abyss at my feet, and out of it came—arising I know not from where—the current which I dare to call my life.” – Teilhard de Chardin, Pierre. The Divine Milieu (New York: Harper & Row Publishers, Incorporated, 1960) p. 42

Transcript

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0:00.0

This is infants on the wrongs.

0:04.0

The philosophies of men angled with humans.

0:08.0

We are the core. Listener,

0:15.0

Listener Esser.

0:17.0

Listener Esser. Welcome back to Infants on Thrones. My name's Tom Perry. Today I'm joined with my friend Jake who submitted a listener essay titled Verbal Jiu-Jitsu. And in this episode, Jake invited Kim Gustafson to also join in with us.

0:37.0

Kim is the principal of Ascendio, a company whose focus is improving methods of communication in the corporate sector.

0:43.4

So take it away Jake. Howdy y'all my name is Jake I'm a small town Utah dude that

0:49.2

grew up drinking from the Mormon fire hose for years I felt as if I was pretty big deal,

0:55.0

saved for the last days and all,

0:57.0

and one of the tougher members of a chosen generation.

1:00.0

Then they started saying the same thing about or two you x y and z kids.

1:06.0

That is why I quit paying tithing and quit going to church.

1:10.0

Okay, I'm kidding. My disaffection for Mormonism runs a little deeper than just that, but it does suck not to feel like a big deal anymore. I mean, if the coach just would have put me in, I bet I could throw a football over that mountain, right?

1:25.0

So on a serious note, one sediment I hear repeatedly in the podcast world

1:31.0

is that it's semi-impossible to have a productive conversation. the It wasn't until recent that I started applying a different paradigm to this question.

1:44.7

You see, I'm a safety professional. I spend my days engaged in heated conversation

1:49.3

about how to change behaviors, cultures, and sometimes standards.

1:53.7

I've always called this method of conversation with an opposing foe verbal jingitsu.

2:00.0

Not until a recent invite thought to apply this technique to the opposition of Mormonism.

2:05.6

So what do I mean by Jinjitsu?

2:07.8

Well, let's just start by unpacking the language.

2:10.8

Verbal, basically language.

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