EP 29: Serving Hottie Sauce, Auntie Vibes & Labor Glam

So What Now? with Carla and Dex

Idea to Launch Productions

Society & Culture, Personal Journals

4.8 • 592 Ratings

🗓️ 12 May 2025

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Summary

Hey friend, it's me, Carla! 💋 This week on So What Now, we're giving flowers (and maybe some biscuits) to our Woman of the Week—Megan Thee Stallion—for opening her own Popeyes franchise and dropping that delicious "Hottie Sauce"! I LIVE for a business-savvy baddie, okay?! 💅🔥

Now, let's talk "auntie"... because Dex is still not over it. We get into what it really means when people start calling you that—respect, shade, or both? After some laughs (and a little dragging), Dex might be warming up to the title—as long as nobody expects her to be a role model, LOL.

We also get real about motherhood. Jazzy's holding it down solo (yes, I know she's with Cam—but still, I said what I said 👀). We talk about losing your spark, shifting identity, and how so many mamas are running on empty with no village in sight.

And baby, don't get me started on getting your makeup done for labor! Is it a power move or just for the 'Gram? Either way, do you, boo. We wrap things up with a spicy take on the celeb "C-tuck" trend—because this snapback pressure? It's not giving realistic.

It's a juicy one—funny, honest, and full of those "so what now?" moments. Press play! 🎙️✨

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0:00.0	I don't know what's going to happen next, but yeah, So What Now.
0:10.6	Welcome back to another episode of the So What Now podcast. I am so excited to be here today.
0:17.5	You're so cute.
0:18.5	Because you're 38.
0:19.8	I am.
0:39.5	38? 38? How do you feel? 38? Is that good? Bad? Neutral? I feel good. I don't think I'm... At this point, it's like, it's a big number. She's a big girl. She's a big girl. Large and in charge. Large. Okay. She's a big girl. I feel good. I feel blessed. I feel mature. I ain't mature no more. It's mature. I feel very matriarchy since I've
0:48.3	been reading what's her Facebook. It was good. It was good. I really want to say I've been wanting,
0:53.6	I don't know how to like, I want to do something,
0:55.7	but I don't know what.
0:57.1	I'm really like, I'm going to call.
0:58.5	Did we just start this?
0:59.5	Yes. It's because I haven't smoked. I need drugs. Oh my God. I think I'm addicted. My feelings are coming out. Lusa. You just did so good for my birthday.
1:09.2	Like I felt so loved.
1:11.0	Because you are and I wanted you to feel that way.
1:14.4	That was my birthday. Like, I felt so loved. Because you are, and I wanted you to feel that way. That was my intention. So I'm happy. That's a gift for me that you received what I was trying to give you. But, Carla, that is nothing in comparison to what you on Amma did for my birthday last year. Are you serious? I don't know. I feel like this is way more.
1:28.6	No, I'm gonna cry. We are not even too many. I feel I, we're 30 seconds in menopause and emotional. It has to be. Perry menopause is here. Something is here. My goodness. I've been crying about it since like Monday. I'm like this was, or Sunday. it just felt so good to have you guys at the house and I'm like you really
1:45.5	decorate I really thought that I was in Japan aside from the guy shooting socky down my throat
1:52.1	to a little dangly thing in the back of my throat that I did not ask for he knocked it out you know when
1:56.9	you go to um oh my god it's okay you know when you go to the arcades and you shoot with water?
2:02.9	Yeah. The little things, they fall back. That's what it felt like he did to the back and when I'd throw. I was pissed. Yeah, that was too much. He was doing a lot. It felt like punishment. Like whenever we got something wrong, sake you. We're like, no, talking you. No, so basically if you guys didn't, because I haven't really posted a video about it.
2:20.7	Oh my God, why am I still crying? This is terrible. Ship created a video and he's going to send it to you. Yes, I was like, you're here. You're the only man. Do man stuff and take behind the scenes videos. I saw you telling Ship. Shit, I'm so sorry that she was a boss. She said, oh, more videos, pictures. I can't sit over there.
2:37.3	You can't sit here. and take behind the scenes videos. I saw you telling Ship, I'm so sorry that she was a boss.
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