Hey what's up beautiful people. I used to say that back in the day but hi welcome back to another episode of bail cast. I'm happy to announce that this bill cast is brought to you by Skillshare, Manscape, um no, so I'm really stoked to share all those products and services with you guys. But first we're going to talk something that is deep down and personal. near and dear to our hearts yeah so

you want to take it away take it away take it away Bart so recently you know we're we have a

pretty tight group of friends.

We got Aunt Christina, Casey and Tiff, Steve and Nicky, Joe and Jess, David and Mary.

Mary, not so much because she doesn't work with us on a regular basis but through Dave which is extremely close and

within our group we've we help each other deal with a lot of couple issues and you know at any given time you guys have seen it through the vlogs

Like we've shared some dark moments join Jess have shared some dark moments but people go through a lot of dark moments sometimes.

Couples, and then there's times where you actually consider breaking up or divorce.

To me divorce and breaking up is the same thing

it's just a different word for it does it really matter.

There's just more complications and paperwork and property split and all that

shit. Yeah but the the purest intent of it is separation so there's and no one wants to see that happen yeah and I get a

lot of messages I get a shit ton of dms and they're like long paragraphs and I'm

sorry I can't reply but it's along what we're just talking about now.

Yeah and one thing that Steve and Nicki actually shared with us that I thought was so cool was I think for both of them because they're very

emotionally intelligent and very articulate and vulnerable to each other.

They're awesome. They experienced their really dark place a year into our relationship.

I think when people have strong egos and...

Which is everyone.

There's people with very strong... I see. Because if you're

ego and vulnerability they're the opposite. Oh I see I so Steve and

Nicki because they're able to be vulnerable they're able to put their ego aside. Yeah

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