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The Hello Someday Podcast For Sober Curious Women

Ep 286: Money Stress In Your Marriage: How To Break The Cycle (Without Reaching For A Drink)

The Hello Someday Podcast For Sober Curious Women

Casey McGuire Davidson: Sober Coach

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.9752 Ratings

🗓️ 2 October 2025

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

Do you and your partner keep circling the same money arguments — budgets, spending, saving — and somehow end up frustrated, shut down, or resentful? You’re not alone. Money is emotional (because… humans), and in sobriety those emotions aren’t numbed out anymore. The good news: you can break the cycle, learn to talk about money without blowing up, and build a financial plan that actually matches your values. In this episode, I asked Dee Zimmerman, couples financial coach and creator of the Wealth Together program, to share how you can understand your money stories, avoid the Gottman “Four Horsemen” in money talks, and start simple, weekly conversations that reduce conflict and build partnership. For the full shownotes, kindly go to this podcast episode link: https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/money-stress-in-your-marriage-how-to-break-the-cycle-without-reaching-for-a-drink/ 4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More Join The Sobriety Starter Kit, the only sober coaching course designed specifically for busy women. My proven, step-by-step sober coaching program will teach you exactly how to stop drinking  — and how to make it the best decision of your life. Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking  Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free. Connect with me for free sober coaching tips, updates + videos on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and TikTok @hellosomedaysober. Love The Podcast and Want To Say Thanks? ☕ Buy me a coffee! In the true spirit of Seattle, coffee is my love language. So if you want to support the hours that go into creating this show each week, click this link to buy me a coffee and I’ll run to the nearest Starbucks + lift a Venti Almond Milk Latte and toast to you! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/hellosomeday  💕 Support the sponsors of The Hello Someday Podcast You can find all the special discounts mentioned on the show right here: https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/sponsors/ Leave me a rating and review on Apple Podcasts!⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ I read every single review and they really help the podcast algorithm decide to share my show with a wider audience. Just click here, scroll below the latest episodes, and you’ll see the link to “rate and review this podcast”. I’ll be forever grateful to hear from you and to read reviews like this one from Laura, “I’ve listened to so many sober podcasts and The Hello Someday Podcast is by far THE BEST Sobriety Podcast out there for women. This podcast was key to me quitting alcohol. Casey’s practical tips and tricks are invaluable, with advice I haven’t heard anywhere else. If I could give this podcast 27 stars I would!!” Connect with Casey McGuire DavidsonTo find out more about Casey and her coaching programs, head over to www.hellosomedaycoaching.com

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Hello Sunday podcast, the podcast for busy women who are ready to drink less and live more.

0:10.2

I'm Casey McGuire Davidson, ex-red wine girl turned life coach, helping women create lives they love without alcohol.

0:18.4

But it wasn't that long ago that I was anxious, overwhelmed, and drinking a bottle

0:23.1

of wine a night to unwind. I thought that wine was the glue, holding my life together,

0:28.6

helping me cope with my kids, my stressful job, and my busy life. I didn't realize that my love

0:35.0

affair with drinking was making me more anxious and less able to

0:39.2

manage my responsibilities. In this podcast, my goal is to teach you the tried and true secrets

0:45.5

of creating and living a life you don't want to escape from. Each week, I'll bring you tools,

0:52.1

lessons, and conversations to help you drink less and live more.

0:56.6

I'll teach you how to navigate our drinking-obsessed culture without a buzz,

1:01.0

how to sit with your emotions when you're lonely or angry, frustrated, or overwhelmed,

1:06.9

how to self-soothe without a drink, and how to turn the decision to stop drinking from your

1:12.6

worst-case scenario to the best decision of your life.

1:16.8

I am so glad you're here.

1:18.5

Now let's get started.

1:21.1

Hey there, welcome back to the podcast.

1:23.8

Today we are talking about money and how it can be a source of stress and a trigger not only for you,

1:30.2

but a source of conflict and disconnection in your marriage or partnership.

1:35.0

It may be that you feel like you're carrying the whole mental load in your relationship,

1:39.6

juggling the bills and worrying about the future or trying to make money stretch while your partner

1:44.6

avoids the hard conversations, or it might be that you aren't comfortable in talking about

1:50.0

money or worried about your spending, but not wanting to discuss it with anyone else.

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