You are listening to How to Get Over Your Ex episode number 279 when it feels like you don't matter to the person who matters most to you.

Welcome to How to Get Over Your Ex, a podcast on getting over your ex without it just taking time.

I'm your host, breakup coach Dorothy.

Let's turn your pain into power and your heartbreak into happy.

Hello, hello, hello, beautiful brave hearts. how are you doing? Happy Monday. We are almost complete with February. I think it's going to be the last Monday of the month when this airs. I am so excited for today's episode. This is another live coaching session that took place the week

of the five-day training. And this individual got coached on a couple of things. But the main

takeaway to listen for in this is that you are important. You as a human being matters. You are appreciated and you are a significant loss even when you don't feel like it.

And I say all of this knowing what it feels like, when it feels like you don't matter to the person that matters most to you in this world.

When the person that mattered most to you in this world. When the person

that mattered most to you in this world seems to not care that you're gone, that is a very

dark, difficult place to live in and you're not alone in that world. So in today's coaching

call, you're going to witness a beautiful, badass brave heart in her vulnerability,

sharing the struggles she's facing during this time and what she's doing to overcome them

and eventually where we land in feeling appreciated.

So without further ado, here we go, my brave hearts.

I love you and I'll talk to you next time.

How are you doing? I'm doing well. How about you? Good. I'm so happy to meet you. Yeah, likewise. I mean, first of all, let me just say your stuff has been absolutely amazing. I've been, you know, listening to your podcast. I've been dealing with this for far too long. But yes, your podcast has, you know, helped so much. I'm so grateful. That means the world to me. You guys have no idea. I started that podcast being like, if I can help one person, it will be worth it. And here we are, you know, years later. And I'm like, I think we helped at least one person, right? Yes, absolutely.

Well, let's dive in. Tell me, what can I help you with today? Yeah. So it's actually very timely because last, well, yesterday, a good chunk of yesterday, I was having a lot of angry emotions to where it's

in my act about like the way that he you know treated me and you know I mean

it was you know it was a whole complicated situation breakup turn situation should turn like you know

just messy whatever right and you know like I'll say that like he did step up in like individual

ways but then sort of like zooming out at the end of the day, I think a recurring

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