Ep. 279: Hormones, Menopause & Better Sex in Sobriety: What Every Woman Needs To Know

The Hello Someday Podcast For Sober Curious Women

Casey McGuire Davidson: Sober Coach

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.9 • 752 Ratings

🗓️ 14 August 2025

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

If your sex drive has gone missing, your body feels like it’s betraying you, or you think that wine is the only thing that can get you through the mood swings, hot flashes, and insomnia of midlife—this episode is for you. I asked Dr. Kelly Casperson—board-certified urologist, hormone and sex expert, and author of You Are Not Broken: Stop Shoulding All Over Your Sex Life—to break down how perimenopause, hormones, alcohol, and aging all affect our desire, sex lives, and emotional well-being in midlife. Spoiler alert: it’s not just in your head, and there are things you can do about it. Dr. Kelly is also the host of the You Are Not Broken podcast, and she’s a no-BS, wildly smart voice helping women understand what’s actually going on with their hormones, desire, and bodies. In this conversation, we talk honestly about sex in sobriety, hormone replacement therapy (HRT), perimenopause symptoms, and how alcohol is quietly making everything worse. For the full shownotes, kindly go to this podcast episode link: https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/hormones-menopause-better-sex-in-sobriety-what-every-woman-needs-to-know/ 4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More Join The Sobriety Starter Kit, the only sober coaching course designed specifically for busy women. My proven, step-by-step sober coaching program will teach you exactly how to stop drinking — and how to make it the best decision of your life. Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free. Connect with me for free sober coaching tips, updates + videos on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and TikTok @hellosomedaysober. Love The Podcast and Want To Say Thanks? ☕ Buy me a coffee! In the true spirit of Seattle, coffee is my love language. So if you want to support the hours that go into creating this show each week, click this link to buy me a coffee and I’ll run to the nearest Starbucks + lift a Venti Almond Milk Latte and toast to you! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/hellosomeday 💕 Support the sponsors of The Hello Someday Podcast You can find all the special discounts mentioned on the show right here: https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/sponsors/ Leave me a rating and review on Apple Podcasts!⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ I read every single review and they really help the podcast algorithm decide to share my show with a wider audience. Just click here, scroll below the latest episodes, and you’ll see the link to “rate and review this podcast”. I’ll be forever grateful to hear from you and to read reviews like this one from Laura, “I’ve listened to so many sober podcasts and The Hello Someday Podcast is by far THE BEST Sobriety Podcast out there for women. This podcast was key to me quitting alcohol. Casey’s practical tips and tricks are invaluable, with advice I haven’t heard anywhere else. If I could give this podcast 27 stars I would!!” Connect with Casey McGuire Davidson To find out more about Casey and her coaching programs, head over to www.hellosomedaycoaching.com

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Hello Sunday podcast, the podcast for busy women who are ready to drink less and live more.
0:10.2	I'm Casey McGuire Davidson, ex-red wine girl turned life coach, helping women create lives they love without alcohol.
0:18.4	But it wasn't that long ago that I was anxious, overwhelmed, and drinking a bottle
0:23.1	of wine a night to unwind. I thought that wine was the glue, holding my life together,
0:28.6	helping me cope with my kids, my stressful job, and my busy life. I didn't realize that my love
0:35.0	affair with drinking was making me more anxious and less able to
0:39.2	manage my responsibilities. In this podcast, my goal is to teach you the tried and true secrets
0:45.5	of creating and living a life you don't want to escape from. Each week, I'll bring you tools,
0:52.1	lessons, and conversations to help you drink less and live more.
0:56.6	I'll teach you how to navigate our drinking-obsessed culture without a buzz,
1:01.0	how to sit with your emotions when you're lonely or angry, frustrated, or overwhelmed,
1:06.9	how to self-soothe without a drink, and how to turn the decision to stop drinking from your
1:12.6	worst case scenario to the best decision of your life. I am so glad you're here. Now let's get
1:19.2	started. Hey there, welcome back. If you have ever felt like your sex drive has disappeared,
1:26.9	your body has changed in ways you don't understand, or intimacy just feels complicated now that you're in midlife and now that you're not drinking, then this episode is going to be so helpful.
1:40.8	I'm talking with Dr. Kelly Casperson, a board certified urologist, sex educator, hormone
1:48.1	expert, and the hilarious no BS host of You Are Not Broken podcast. She's also the author of
1:55.5	The book, You Are Not Broken, Stop Shitting All Over Your Sex Life, which is about rewriting
2:00.6	the script around sex, desire,
2:03.1	relationships, and midlife wellness. Dr. Kelly is here to break down everything we should have
2:09.3	learned about our bodies, desire hormones and healthy sex, but probably never did.
2:15.4	So we're going to talk about sex in sobriety, perimenopause,
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