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The Aaron Doughty Podcast

EP#271 SHOCKING REASON Why Being Nice Leads To REJECTION...

The Aaron Doughty Podcast

Aaron Doughty

Alternative Health, Health & Fitness

4.92.4K Ratings

🗓️ 24 November 2021

⏱️ 30 minutes

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In this episode I'll share with you why being nice leads to rejection and how to change this in your life. Get EVERY meditation and EVERY workshop I've ever created here: ➡️ www.AaronsBlackFridaySpecial.com

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0:00.0

In this video, I'm going to be sharing with you the cure to nice guys, nice girl, nice men, nice woman, to be nice.

0:10.1

Pretty much the cure to being nice and the shocking reason why being nice will always lead to rejection.

0:19.3

If this was a video that I saw three or four years ago, it would have completely transformed my life

0:24.4

because I'm going to show you the root cause of why this wound is there and why someone is being nice

0:30.8

because if you think that being nice is who you really are, I'm here to tell you, being nice is not who you really are.

0:38.5

Being nice is an attachment to outcome. Being compassionate could be somebody's actual natural trait, but being nice is not.

0:48.0

So if you first saw, if you clicked on this video, you've already decided, you've already showed that there's some part of you that maybe

0:54.0

is being nice in exchange for other people's validation and afraid of being rejected.

1:01.0

And in this video, I'm going to show you how to cure this whole entire problem of overextension, of being nice, of really giving

1:11.2

more of yourself in exchange for other people's validation and understanding the cure to this whole entire process.

1:20.1

Now, the thing is, if you are being nice and you're not honest with yourself about this, you will find that you will continue to be rejected over and over and over again

1:30.5

by other people. And mainly because being nice in of itself is a rejection of self.

1:38.8

There's a part of us if we're being nice to other people that really wants other people's validation, that really wants other people's approval.

1:47.8

And if we don't give it to ourselves, we look for it on the outside. And then we've already started the initial level of rejection by rejecting the self.

2:00.0

So I'm here to show you in this video, the cure to this whole entire process that will completely transform your life.

2:07.2

And in three to four months from now, you're going to look back and you're going to see that this video helped you to unleash that core wound, which by the way,

2:15.2

we'll get into this more in a minute, but vulnerability,

2:19.6

vulner, the word, vulner in the word vulnerability means wound. Your ability to go into this wound is going to be your power of releasing the shame that is present, that is keeping you in this little nice guy, nice girl box.

2:36.3

The people please are box. And when you become free, you are going to be a whole new you, okay, a whole new you. You're going to be you in a more embodied form.

2:48.4

You're not going to be so attached to what people think about you. And because of that, you're going to feel more authentic.

2:56.1

It's going to feel like a whole new world. Literally, literally, it's going to be a whole new world for you. I'm not even, I'm not even kidding about this.

3:04.0

So first off, that's what you're going to learn in this video. The pain of you turning off this video is that you're going to continue to live in the self abandoned lifestyle, where you overextend yourself, overexplain yourself, and are searching for something that's outside of you when it's really inside of you.

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