Welcome back to another episode on the Aaron Dowdy podcast may almost at on Miguel or Aaron Dowdy or Aaron Michael

as is my middle name.

And in this video, I'm going to be explaining to you or sharing with you three ways you can let go

of carrying what other people think of you that will completely transform your life. It

allows you to be the most authentic version of you. And it allows you to really detach

from needing or wanting or craving other people's validation and understanding really where this

comes from. What part of the core wound this comes from. And it's actually very relevant. I'm

going to open up and share with you guys a story of something's happened in my life right now that

I think will maybe reflect some things back to you. You'll be able to see how you may do it

in your own life, especially with these motivations. But I've gone through many different levels

of really carrying what other people think of me. I've had moments where because I care so much

about what other people think of me. I've created this internal pressure where I have to be a certain

way. I've been afraid of sharing certain concepts on my YouTube channel because I really care

and have wanted what other people thought of and you know cared what people thought of me.

And I've found that even with friends sometimes. I've had past what I've had certain friends that I

like look up to were I am like a yes man to them because I like them and I want their validation.

And over the last year that's completely transformed because I've stopped trying to get

a source of like validation and approval from the outside. Now the core wound that this comes from

is if we are afraid of being rejected or we have had some form of emotional abandonment from

childhood growing up. Many times what happens is we then become afraid of rejection. We become

afraid of somebody withdrawing their energy from us. And what happens is we then change our center

of gravity will then change who we think we are to then make other people like us or then to gain

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