Is there something that you need or want or feel like you should let go of?

And my guess is that if you can hear this right now, then there is something that is trying to

make its way out so that you can allow something to actually come in. So I've looked just over

the last like, actually yesterday, yesterday I went through this process where I was going through

all my teachings and I was looking at all the videos that I've made and asking myself,

what is the common denominator here? What is the one thing that has changed my life the most

over the last couple of years, even my whole entire story? And I realized that it comes down to

the ability to let go. And anytime I have let go, in a way, the universe has rewarded me or given

me a direct reflection of a new version of me. Now, I think about it. If you know my story,

then seven to fifteen years old, the whole stepmom thing, after that left my life and I was

fifteen and my dad divorced, or I kept attracting into my life woman that were trying to control me

because there was a belief there. There was a belief that I was holding on to that said that

woman tried to control me. And therefore, my reality was a direct reflection of that belief.

In order for me to let that go, in order for that to change, I had to let that go. I had to let

that belief go. And I also, I had to forgive my stepmom. It wasn't easy because I had a lot of

anger. I think I had a lot of my identity around that of the victimization that I experienced when

I was younger. Like, you don't, this is what I went through. And in a way, maybe that made me

stronger. But the thing that really changed everything was when I let go of that positionality.

A positionality is kind of like a perspective. I let go of holding on to that. And when I did,

that X stepmom left my life. What if the people in your life are direct reflections of what you're

allowing because you are holding on to and attached to believing that's what you deserve,

both in the good ways and the bad ways, by the way. If you have people in your life that are

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