Ep. 25 - Commitment and determination after a breakup
How to Get Over Your Ex
Dorothy AB Johnson
4.7 • 577 Ratings
🗓️ 9 March 2020
⏱️ 12 minutes
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Summary
The reason this is so important is because we MUST show up as future you. Future you who is over her ex, who is THRIVING not just surviving, the woman who knows her worth, attracts what she wants in life, and makes decisions that benefit her long term not short term. The woman who isn't constantly obsessing over her ex, stalking his and her social media. You are NOT That person.
Being committed and determined and dedicated to your growth will be the difference between incremental growth vs entire life transformation. It'll be the difference between merely surviving this vs THRIVING.
In this episode:
- Why commitment and determination is so important during a breakup
- Why we don't just automatically feeling that way
- How to do feel committed and determined ahead of time
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | You are listening to How to Get Over Your Ex, episode number 25, commitment and determination after a breakup. |
| 0:23.0 | Welcome to How to Get Over Your Ex, a podcast on getting over your ex without it just taking time. |
| 0:25.2 | I'm your host, breakup coach Dorothy. |
| 0:28.7 | Let's turn your pain into power and your heartbreak into happy. |
| 0:41.0 | All right, Brave hearts, we are at 43,000 downloads with the podcast. I cannot believe it. I'm so grateful. |
| 0:47.3 | I want to make sure that you are sure to enter the giveaway for three months of one-on-one breakup coaching with me for free. What? This is insane. So to enter, go ahead, rate and write a review about the podcast. |
| 0:57.4 | Send me a screenshot and I'll be going live on Instagram and Facebook to announce that winner at |
| 1:02.8 | random. It will literally be happening, I think, within the next two weeks. So be sure to do that |
| 1:07.8 | soon. There's not too many people signed up, so your chances of winning is fabulous. |
| 1:13.8 | I'm super excited. |
| 1:15.5 | Now, when I went through my rock bottom breakup, I was 110% committed and determined |
| 1:22.2 | to create a life better than the one I had with my ex. |
| 1:27.3 | And I had decided that after he had moved on with |
| 1:30.1 | another girl, that that was really my only option at that point. And I was not going to live |
| 1:35.9 | like a mediocre life just because he left mine. So that's why I had worked so hard at doing |
| 1:42.8 | everything, right? I googled how do you get over your |
| 1:45.3 | ex and I did all of the things. And I am so glad that I was determined and committed because it |
| 1:51.9 | got me to where I am today. And at first, I'm not going to lie, it was for all the wrong reasons. |
| 1:58.7 | For a while, I kind of thought that maybe if I lived this |
| 2:01.3 | balmy of life, like he would notice and he would miss me and he would come back. And he did |
| 2:06.3 | come back after a couple of months and we messaged and whatnot and we talked, but it was not |
| 2:11.3 | in the way that I had been hoping for, obviously. And that's when I kind of realized that no |
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