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That's how you start to reframe guilt and start to set boundaries.

It starts with you setting a firm line for yourself that you deserve a permission to be

unavailable, that your time is not sand.

Your time is diamonds.

You only get 24 hours in a day and you get just as much time choice over how you use that time

than your partner. That is a true boundary. That is not just a walk around the

block. That takes internal work on yourself.

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Visit fidelity.com slash her money to learn more. Hey everyone I'm Jean Chatsky. Thank you so much for joining me today on her money. I mean really I know how busy you are

especially right now with your work schedules and remote school and your

household to maintain just an FYI like I did not make the bed this morning. I can't remember how many years it has been since I did not make the bed and it's one of those things that would normally stress me out, but I just gave up today. And I think that's the same thing

that so many of you are facing. We are all fighting our own battles these days and we hear every day from all of you just how tough it is.

But it is particularly tough for women. Between August and September 1.1 million workers dropped out of the labor force, 865,000 of them were women, according to a study from the National

Women's Law Center, and another study by Care International found that 55% of income have lost income during COVID-19

compared to just 34% of men.

But you don't need these statistics.

You could just stop any woman on the street wearing your mask,

I hope, and she will probably tell you

that she is shouldering more responsibility, more of the invisible

mental load than ever before. She will probably tell you that she is exhausted.

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