Welcome back to that episode on the Aaron Dowdy podcast.

My name is Aaron Dowdy and today we're going to be looking into understanding more about

love attraction, how love attraction is wound based.

Meaning we are sexually attracted and emotionally attracted to people that have a similar

corresponding childhood wound as us and what happens is we are attracted to them because

we are secretly but unconsciously searching for wholeness.

We're searching to heal the patterns from childhood and what happens is we attract people

into our life with similar corresponding childhood wounding so that we can then try to heal

through that relationship to heal the same dynamics when we were a kid.

Now sometimes this also comes from a certain sense of familiarity when we're kids.

So when we fall in love with someone it feels so good, it feels so connecting but at the

same time what that is is that's a certain sense of familiarity, it's familiar.

It's almost like you're coming back to the primordial home of your mom or your dad

and you're feeling that same connection you felt when you're a baby or when you're a

kid and that energy dynamic that is on autopilot feels comfortable and therefore it feels good.

So in this episode what I want to do is I want to look more at the love based and wound

based attraction but also showing you how you can heal through these patterns and what

some of the lessons are, some of the things you can take with you are so that you heal

yourself because a lot of everybody talking a little bit about anxious and avoidant attachment

styles and how to heal each side of those but also what that's saying about yourself

because all attracting love is a reflection of these love of self and there are certain

lessons we get and certain reflections we get to heal if we're aware of them but if we're

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