EP 230: The Anxious-Avoidant Attachment Style Trap
Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice
Dr. Morgan Anderson
4.7 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 11 May 2022
⏱️ 24 minutes
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Summary
In today’s episode: ONE OF MY FAVORITE TOPICS OF ALL TIME!
We are talking about the anxious-avoidant trap.
That’s right we dive into WHY you are attracted to, who you are attracted to.
In addition we are going to talk about what happens when this attachment dynamic experiences conflict.
Inside of this juicy episode:
-We look at the truth behind anxious / avoidant attachment dynamics
-We examine WHY this duo is so toxic when they experience conflict
- I share with you the ONE THING that causes most anxious/avoidant couples to begin a conflict (this is largely unconscious)
I hope you loved today’s episode! I know you all love attachment theory.
If you’re ready to become securely attached, then make sure you apply to the E.S.L program today to start your healing journey!
Program has limited spots this May! Don’t miss out. Bonus: we are offering an additional two weeks free when you join in May!
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Let's Get Vulnerable Podcast with me your host Dr. Morgan Anderson, clinical psychologist, relationship |
| 0:16.5 | coach, love expert, creator of the ESL relationship method, and athletic wear connoisseur. My mission is to help you raise |
| 0:27.4 | yourself worth, have great relationships, and step confidently into the next level of your life. |
| 0:34.0 | Each week, two episodes will air |
| 0:37.0 | featuring expert advice, live coaching, |
| 0:40.0 | and tips showing you exactly how to improve your life and attract great relationships. |
| 0:46.0 | You deserve to feel empowered, secure, and loved. |
| 0:51.0 | So buckle up and let's get vulnerable. Are you tired of investing your time and your energy |
| 0:59.3 | into relationships that go nowhere and you know deep down the common denominator is you. |
| 1:08.0 | You have awareness that whatever you're doing right now in relationships is not working, it's not serving you, and you are |
| 1:15.1 | ready to take ownership of this area of your life and finally learn how to embody a securely attached confident woman who can attract a great relationship. |
| 1:30.0 | If that's you, I have a very special invitation. |
| 1:34.0 | I want to invite you to apply to the Empowered, secure, and loved program. |
| 1:40.8 | This is a program designed to help you no matter your attachment style. |
| 1:45.0 | No matter your relationship past, it will help you move to secure attachment so that you can show up confident, you can communicate well, you can |
| 1:58.3 | navigate any kind of conflict and you can create that relationship that you've always wanted will |
| 2:05.6 | simultaneously having high self-worth and high levels of self-love. If that's you and you know that in 2022 you are ready for a great |
| 2:18.9 | relationship and you're committed to getting there. I want to personally invite you to apply to the ESL program. |
| 2:26.9 | Use the link in my Instagram bio. On Instagram it's at Dr Morgan coaching |
| 2:33.4 | and the link is also in the show notes |
| 2:36.7 | spots are extremely limited so go apply now |
| 2:40.1 | to reserve your spot and start your journey to high self-worth and great |
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