Welcome back to another episode on the Aaron Dowdy podcast today. I have my best friend Victor Odo who is he's here to we're doing a we're gonna be talking about a whole bunch of different stuff today and

yeah just really sharing with you also what happened yesterday because yesterday Victor came over and many of you know Victor Victor's my best friend he's a YouTuber he's a coach

runs retreat he does a whole bunch of different stuff but him and I also you know we have a we have a full-time purpose which is like a company that we have

together we teach people to go full-time doing what they love and yeah we both got houses in Sedona we live here now but thank you for coming on the

podcast you're welcome it's an honor awesome so yeah let's share a little bit about you know first off how you doing I'm doing good man I've been staying with Aaron these past couple

days he's been nice enough to have me as a guest and me and Aaron would remember we should take these trips probably three or four times a year where we I

leave the family we mean you go off on a vacation yeah it was very nice and now that we both live in Sedona we haven't been doing that we

just go home to the houses so I'm kind of cool recapturing that that sort of situation which has been very good for me as a father and someone who's very involved with the

family to kind of break away and just sort of that's got to be a time for you recently right like yeah realizing because I think back in the day I

remember especially when you first started hanging out like three or four years ago we would you know when you'd be away from the kids you'd be

feeling really guilty like I should be there yeah and I need to be around all the time you know and it was like a a constant I think battle for you to

really become okay with not being around 24 seven yeah yeah you know I see that theme in a lot of people like wanting something for

themselves and then a guilt associated with it as a logical as it may be as in my case you as Aaron knows I spend a ridiculous amount of time with my

family I put it in saying about emphasis about being a good father you know me and Aaron do plant medicine a lot of the time is my

intention is how do I become a better father yeah and yet in spite of that I work from home yeah you know I play go to the park

every day with the kids but in spite of that when I would come just to do something for myself whether it be pursue my own

passions with like YouTube or something or come to visit Aaron as another example there would be this extreme

extreme level of guilt very very like illogical and out of place but it's a very powerful feeling guilt fear

his emotion so they would they would successfully prevent me from enjoying myself and allowing myself to fly in a sense

whether it be hanging out with you yep or or pursuing my my passions or whatever it is so it's better a big theme as

yeah I think I think the way that I grew up I grew up and you know my dad's a firefighter so he's gone 24 hours a day back 24 hours

a day like on and off for like eight or nine days so I'm used to that and then when I see you and it's like you're working

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